Yes, I broke up with him at the peak of our relationship (he didn't suspect anything and was always kind) and he apparently cried for 2 hours after. I felt like shit.
I think i did it a lot when i told guys no when they were interested in me i just didn't wanna have any relationship so mostly i friendzoned them or brotherzoned them.
I am a Great Asshole. I never regetted a kiss, a friendship or a love which Iam breaked up, until this particullar Girl, who has the best good-bad balance I worked for her 2-3 Month to chat with me, an in the End it worked. Now I think she kinda likes me again. I dont know, do I love her, but I know she's in some way special.
No not regretted but with one I still feel really bad, but well I can't change the way I feel and can't force myself to love someone who I clearly don't
we used to be really good friends and actually I had a gut feeling that he wanted something, I was 16, but I wasn't sure cause I was not that self confident and I was like no he couldn't but I somewhere knew it and after a year he told me and well I broke every contact to him
I did not ghosted him, I broke his heart and then left, he asked to be friends and I decided to end it, cause I thought with being friends he would still have hope and I killed that hope In all this year his affection for me got bigger, if I stopped that in the beginning he would have not get hunted so much like in the end
I was about to say... like damn you even hunted this guy down but it was auto corrected. Rip off the band aid as fast as you can right? It hurts but it was the right thing to do
Yes but it wasn't intentional. I didn't get involved with them or anything but they grew obsessed with me with unrealistic expectations and when it didn't happen, grew bitter.
@TheWorldEndsWithYou I am trying to make our friendship work but safe to say it will never be the same. He texted me this morning "I will get pissed at you and we won't always be on terms but dont think my feelings for you will change. You will always be my friend" Plus he is very BIG on sarcasm so am not sure what to think.
It doesn't bother me because when I said my closure. I did it with poise and maturity, knowing in myself I grew from her pain. So I apologized, thanked her for helping become a better person.
It's never a good feeling to break someone's heart. I've always felt sorry about it but I can't say I regret rejecting them or breaking up, because I was putting myself first.
Yes and no but general rule of thumb is that if it were meant to be she'll never truly let you go long enough for you to find I go that special someone that isn't her.
Well one time I broke things off with a girl that was too clingy and then she attacked me in the parking lot of our school months and months later. So I wish I'd been able to end things on a better note, but I've never regretted ending it in general. There's always other people in the world and it's often better in the long run for things not to drag out if you know it's a sinking ship
Yes. It's easier to get your own heart broken than to break someone else's. Your own heartbreak, you get over. I don't the guilt of hurting someone you care/d about ever goes away.
We talked it over and what went wrong and then we decided to be friends again and since then are good friends again but part of me will still feel guilty cause of how things ended
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I have felt really bad about it but regretted it, no. Breaking someone heart is better than leading them on
Any one in particular you felt really bad about?
Yes, I broke up with him at the peak of our relationship (he didn't suspect anything and was always kind) and he apparently cried for 2 hours after. I felt like shit.
Poor guy, why did you break it off?
I was getting sick of his immaturity, it felt like I was dating an 11 year old.
He was ridiculously sweet though.
He acted like an 11 year old who was very sweet. You made the right choice
Haha I agree, but I do regret breaking up with him when he was starting to get attached.
Better late than never right?
I think i did it a lot when i told guys no when they were interested in me i just didn't wanna have any relationship so mostly i friendzoned them or brotherzoned them.
I wouldn't be your friend that optical illusion of a dress gives me headaches "headaches"!
You wanted to be single or those just didn't interest you?
@kenjaminslutton lolππ
@TheWoldEndsWithYou i just wanted to be single and enjoy my life.
Do you feel you've made the right choice?
Yes i totally do
I am a Great Asshole. I never regetted a kiss, a friendship or a love which Iam breaked up, until this particullar Girl, who has the best good-bad balance
I worked for her 2-3 Month to chat with me, an in the End it worked. Now I think she kinda likes me again.
I dont know, do I love her, but I know she's in some way special.
Special is good though
My best friend and I were Womanizer in the past
What are you now though
No not regretted but with one I still feel really bad, but well I can't change the way I feel and can't force myself to love someone who I clearly don't
Why did you feel really bad about it?
we used to be really good friends and actually I had a gut feeling that he wanted something, I was 16, but I wasn't sure cause I was not that self confident and I was like no he couldn't but I somewhere knew it and after a year he told me and well I broke every contact to him
You ghosted him? Why were you not confident in yourself?
I did not ghosted him, I broke his heart and then left, he asked to be friends and I decided to end it, cause I thought with being friends he would still have hope and I killed that hope
In all this year his affection for me got bigger, if I stopped that in the beginning he would have not get hunted so much like in the end
*hurted, stupid auto correct
I was about to say... like damn you even hunted this guy down but it was auto corrected. Rip off the band aid as fast as you can right? It hurts but it was the right thing to do
yes as fast as possible, thanks
Thank you for sharing your opinion
Yes but it wasn't intentional. I didn't get involved with them or anything but they grew obsessed with me with unrealistic expectations and when it didn't happen, grew bitter.
Obessed? it was that bad?
@TheWorldEndsWithYou yes in his own words.
Sorry to hear about your experiences
@TheWorldEndsWithYou I am trying to make our friendship work but safe to say it will never be the same. He texted me this morning "I will get pissed at you and we won't always be on terms but dont think my feelings for you will change. You will always be my friend" Plus he is very BIG on sarcasm so am not sure what to think.
That would make me so confused what to think
yep...
Sorry for what you had to go through with
@TheWorldEndsWithYou What dont kill you, only makes you stronger. It was kinda messy tho and I hate messes.
Just wipe yourself out, like Obi Wan said. If you strike me down I'll come back more powerful than you can possibly imagine
haha loool. ok
Twice. They confessed love but I felt nothing more than friends. They were crushed but it's not fair to lie to them.
Better than stringing them along?
I have not and would not choose to. Or it may lead to that question you just asked.
Why are you going through it?
I did a long time ago but I made peace with the woman I hurt. Just felt like something that needed to be ask. That's good you never did though.
Does it still bother you?
Closure ends unanswered thoughts and questions, it is good you had, to keep both of you at peace.
I did not want anything bothering my thoughts
It doesn't bother me because when I said my closure. I did it with poise and maturity, knowing in myself I grew from her pain. So I apologized, thanked her for helping become a better person.
Let's hope we keep our minds clear
That is the right step to take, not a lot would, but that is courage, very good thing
I appreciate that
It's never a good feeling to break someone's heart. I've always felt sorry about it but I can't say I regret rejecting them or breaking up, because I was putting myself first.
You live up to your username indeed lol
Yes and no but general rule of thumb is that if it were meant to be she'll never truly let you go long enough for you to find I go that special someone that isn't her.
That's insightful actually, she won't let you truly go
Gotta break hearts to stay intact, never regretted it ever; it takes courage and maturity to recognize when something needs to be done.
Very true, so not even once?
Well one time I broke things off with a girl that was too clingy and then she attacked me in the parking lot of our school months and months later. So I wish I'd been able to end things on a better note, but I've never regretted ending it in general. There's always other people in the world and it's often better in the long run for things not to drag out if you know it's a sinking ship
She sounds crazy, you were right to let things go
Yeah, I seem to have some pheromones that attract crazy, haha
I actually like crazy lol π
Yeah I did. Kinda still do. It was just an elementary school love so she got over it in like a day or something, but still, I was a dick about it.
You were a kid, its okay. Just be better
No, I cannot control their feelings and I prefer to be honest about my feelings than giving them fake hope.
Tell them what they need to hear, not what they want to hear
Exactly.
No, I don't generally give a shit if this happens.
If she was valued enough for me to care about hurting her feelings then I wouldn't be doing it in the first place.
Damn lol
Yes, hurting someone is the worst feeling in the world.
I don't regret what happened, but I never wanted to hurt him, and I hate thinking about it.
That bad?
Yes. It's easier to get your own heart broken than to break someone else's. Your own heartbreak, you get over. I don't the guilt of hurting someone you care/d about ever goes away.
Have you regretted breaking someone's heart?
No because majority of the time, its the person who breaks my heart. The one i did leave is because she never kept her promises.
I feel it now and I hate myself for it and once I forgive and move on I'll still remember this mistake for ever in my dumb life.
What mistake?
I think i broke my crush's heart...
How did you do that?
yes and I still do 20 years later I wish I could go back and punch myself in the face really bloody hard
Ouch, regretted it that bad?
when you turn your back on someone and they are dead less than a week later and you never stopped loving them. yeah regret that
damn... I'm sorry dude
I had to tell a lot of guys that I wasn't interested in them and I just wanted to be friends. I don't regret it but it was hard to do.
You friend zoned a lot of them didn't you?
Yeah, there was no connection
Better to not fake it
Yeah. I hate to lead them on
Yes I didn't want to break his heart but things got really complicated and I feel so bad but we sorted it out but never wanted to hurt him 😬
How did you sort it out?
We talked it over and what went wrong and then we decided to be friends again and since then are good friends again but part of me will still feel guilty cause of how things ended
He forgave you though, learn to forgive yourself
True I guess and yeah that takes timeππ½
Of course, thank you for the comments
No worries ππ½
it hurts to hurt someone, but i had to break up w him if i wanted to keep the trust. heartbreak is always better than getting played
Why do you say that? Getting played
because after you lost feelings for the person, you start liking other people and that's getting played
You were liking someone?
after a relationship or i lost feelings
As long as you grew from it, you're better person for it