Just recently, I got a friend request by my ex boyfriend (we dated for a year and a half). We haven't talked in months! Even before school ended, that's why I deleted him. But I figured oh well I'll accept. Turns out, he ALSO friend requested my mom and sister! Here's the conversation we had:
ME- hey, so I noticed you friend requested my sister..random..?
HIM- lol I requested all of you guys!
HIM- why NOT? (:
ME- Because we haven't really talked in months so its random
HIM-i know xD but I don't know I just felt like adding you guys.
Personally, I think that EX boyfriends/girlfriends shouldn't add family members of their EX. It's just weird.
But would anyone have an idea why he did that?
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yea that is completely weird .. I wouldn't think so if it was recent like mine.. as I said, but, being it was a year ago he's trying to get back in your life again.. not sure if he regrets breaking up with you or just wondering how you are... getting your family involved is really inconsiderate and insensitive.. but maybe he's not thinking it's a big deal only a connection. like "hey, I liked that family.. they were cool.. I haven't spoken to them in a year"... a lot of times you can like the family better than the other half (sorry), I was on that end... and it is painful to lose everyone. not just the one person. he could be completely have no bad intention here, and be harmless. if you can wait it out to see what he does and just lay low, I recommend that.. just live your life.. it's bothering you because you feel betrayed and hurt still. that pains is hard to get rid of. so try to make your life happy.. fill it.. and don't know if you are with anyone I can't remember it's late I'm too tired to reread lol, but try to meet other guys so you can fully move on. you'll see that this is such a small thing in comparison of what your life really is. this is just the stupid internet.. it really can mess with you big time. I hope you can have some peace and happiness soon. really x0