So, my Girlfriend went out of town for the weekend to go to a wedding where she was to be a bridesmaid. She got back Sunday. At least I think she did. I'm not sure because she hasn't returned any of my calls or texts since then. Before she went out of town we were talking/texting all the time and couldn't get enough of each other and were even making plans to spend our birthday together since we share the same birthday (coming up next month). I'm totally confused.
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No dude, it doesn't necessarily mean that she met someone. During that wedding she could've received attention from people, yeah if you have a good looking girl that's expected. Maybe she really does like you, however doesn't want to commit to someone early in life when she looks good to fool around with people.This happened to me, however the girl never treated me with the disrespect she treated you. She is just confused and in most cases when a girl is confused about a relationship, it means she doesn't want to be with you or anyone in that moment.
It's common for girls to do this under their 30's because there is no rush to find a husband. I take it that you are boyfriend material rather then a fling relationships that she might want now. Take it from me bro, I was just with a girl who was my FWB, and for a while it was just a fling. However she didn't want a serious relationship and we had to stop because she was falling in love with me. Prior to f***ing, she told me she is used to just having one night stands with guys, rather then continued sex and got hurt in the past with old boyfriends that treated her like sh*t.
None of this is your fault, she is just scared or uncertain that she wants a relationship. To give you advice, just continue being friends if you are OK with it. If this really does bother you, then just dump the girl. Because in most cases, it will be hurtful to keep her as a friend.2