I'v been friends with this guys for months but for the last 2 months you've grow closer. We cuddled watching movie, hold hands while he drives, kisses, had sex.. but last night he told me: "Before this gets to far I just want to say that I am still not ready for a relationship. I'd like to be with you but I feel like I am not ready yet. (He broke up with his girlfriend 4 months ago) I still can't trust anyone, and I am starting to over think and doupt" I know that he likes me, its pretty clear by the way he act... should I wait for him or move one?
- Wait for himVote A
- Move onVote B
Most Helpful Guy
It’s a ploy to make you think he’ll want you at some point in the future which never happens. It’s so you’ll keep fucking him for free with no commitment. The fact is it’s you personally he isn’t ready for and never will be. What do you think of him now?1
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry to say, definitely not good idea to have sex with your friend especially if you anticipated a relationship out of it. From your description, I am sensing that He is feeling guilty for having sex with you while knowing that you do want a relationship out of it. "he is not ready yet" so he used his "trust" issues when he already had sex with you to justify himself to not being in a relationship because he might be "free ranging" himself. Your gut is telling you something. It is what it is, unless you do something about it to make him realize that you are worth it.0