My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months now, she's the first girlfriend I've had, and I am 14 as of posting this thread.
However, she for the past 3 months has been telling me she fells as if she "is in the wrong body" and that she "wants to be male"
This is a big problem for me, as I am 100% straight and have absolutely no intention of dating a male or even considering to date a male. I am not Bi either.
What should I do? She seems suicidal at times and breaking up with her may fuel this desire to commit. I don't want her to feel bad or feel as if she has lost everything either.
This is too much for my 14 year old self to handle, im in the relationship situation of a 20 year old.
What should I do? Break up with her? Or keep going?
Most Helpful Girl
break up. she'll just bring you down. let her know its not because you don't love her, but because it's not something you signed up for, and she can't expect you to.
If she threatens to hurt herself or whatever, just know thats the mental disease talking. Depression is destructive and if it's not something you have to deal with, I suggest not. Trying to "fix" depression or "be there" for someone with depression is taxing, and often leads to your own feelings of failure, resentment, and uselessness, since it is not something you can "make better."2
Most Helpful Guy
Talk to her psychologist.
Have you told her that you can't handle to date a male, even when in love with said person?
In the last 2 years I saw a lot of confused girls changing from being sure to be gay to strait to bi to asexual to... some want to transition for a while as well and then not anymore.
Most of them revert to being hetero or bi (who knows if they really are) in the end.0