My ex boyfriend and I didn't have a bad break up. I've bumped into him twice in the last few days-walked right passed me and I could've been air! Why do some men feel the need to completely cut you out as if you never were anything and are nothing now? I just want us to be able to wave and smile and move along! He's acting like I dumped HIM, which is not the case!
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1. Maybe you're the exception, but many women will think, or at least speculate, that if I maintain contact, then I wish to maintain the romantic relationship.I have to make the end of the relationship clear.
2. Again, maybe you're the exception, but some women use continued contact to try to solve relationship issues. They fail to realize that my relationship issues are all solved--that's what the breakup was for.
3. Realize that the end of the relationship has to be clear not only to my ex-girlfriend, but to any *future* girlfriend currently wondering whether I'm single. Only a few, bold girls would ask "Single yet?" Most would watch my behavior--especially toward my ex.
Wait a few months, until he's adjusted.0