My girlfriend is jealous because she thinks I would start chasing for a girl we both know and I had ones a date with long before I started dating my girlfriend. On the date I realized I'm not interested so I let it be. Well, she doesn't believe me and she wants me to tell her the truth but she doesn't believe me when I do. I have told her that I love her (which I am sure about and I really do love her) but she doesn't believe me. So have could I proof it? Please help me
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The number 1 thing you shouldn't do, is have to prove yourself. If she sees that she can get you to prove yourself to her, she's gonna use that to control you subconsciously.
If she gets jealous, and doesn't believe you when you tell her something, tell her she can go f*** off. Seriously! Tell her that! She's being a bitch so you have to treat her like one, even if you do love her.
Sometimes we have to be mean to the people we love in order to open their eyes and make them come to their senses, but if I were you I would give her the feeling that if she doesn't stop being jealous and start showing you a bit of trust, you're gonna leave.
Don't let her control you like this, man. If she thinks you would start chasing another girl, that is HER fault - NOT yours. So why the F*** should you have to get so worked up over HER problems? There is only so much you can do - and that is to be honest. If you're always being honest, giving her attention, and doing your best to be with her, and she STILL feels like you're gonna cheat on her, that's your cue for leaving her.
Some people just aren't worth the effort, man. Be careful with jealous girls. It's part of who they are, and it rarely ever changes. The max you can do is make them TRY not to show it, but chances are it's always going to be there.3
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