WELL DEAR I HAD RED UR CASE AND WHAT I THINK IS THAT UR GUY IS RELIABLE AND WON'T LEAVE You IN SIMPLE HE REALLY LOVES You ALOT. BUT AS UR CASE IS I GUESS You MAY PUT A CONDITION THAT THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP RELATION WITH ME IS TO GET RID OF SEVERE DRINKING AND IF You DONT I AM NOT TALKING OR KEEPING RELATION WITH You I GUESS THE NEXT TIME HE DO THE SAME THING You STOP TALKING AND DONT MEET HIM AND WHEN HE WOULD ASK FOR THE REASON THEN You START A LONG LECTURE OF HIS MISBEHAVIOR AND INCIDENCE THAT HAD HAPPENED IN PAST AND JUST SAY TO HIM THAT HE HAD TO CHOOSE ONE FROM You AND DRINKING. IF HE REALLY LOVES You HE WILL DEFINITELY PROMISE AND STOP DRINKING OTHERWISE HE DON'T REALLY LOVE You AND IS JUST FLIRTING WITH You AND FOR NOW I GUESS You MAY GIVE HIM A CHANCE
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If you truly love him, then you're going to take some time apart and tell him to get help with his drinking. Once he's a lot more sober and in control of his drinking, let him know you'd want to get together.
Until then, he needs to grow up and change his destructive behavior.
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Drinking is one thing (I drink a lot) but I've never passed out, been too drunk to go somewhere, forgot about a meeting etc. Those are the classic signs of alcoholism. He could try AA but those are somewhat of a joke - dumping him or at least telling him you aren't going to do anything with him until he sobers up a bit might have the desired effect. In the end he's not going to change unless he really wants to change.
Tell him he can't binge drink the night before he has plans with you again or it will be over.
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