He sounds like the type that's just trash and not worth worrying about. He knows how to sweet talk and get in girls heads so they think he likes them and when he gets bored he leaves, unfortunately you probably weren't the first and most likely won't be the last person he breaks the heart of. I can't stand guys like this
He’s a frog and will always be a frog, find another better frog than that throw that beautiful heart at him and eventually you’ll find a prince... the longer it takes the better because you’ll end up with a better and better frog each time you take a chance... wait or warts I can’t remember exactly how that goes :)
Life can be great at times and horrible at other times. Welcome to the real world. It is not as if you were married with kids and he ran off with some young piece leaving you with kids and bills to take care of. Just dust yourself off and move on. And learn that you can be too clingy and needy and do something about it.
Well, maybe you should not care either. Would you feel better if he did this latervon in the relationship? The sooner, the better. Tip, avoid one night stands and casual intercourse. Physical intimacy better suits one who is more intimate to your heart.
Simple Your mistake was you have sex with someone that did just used you for a piece of flesh...
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That's very cruel. He should have not string you along then dump you. He'll probably do it with the other girl too... I think do yourself a favor and count it as a lucky escape. Imagine being pregnant or having kids for * that*
I know how hard these situations are. It is not a nice feeling at all espically where you got feelings for him and he hadn't for u. He sounds like a player to me and your better off without him. I would be thinking its his lose and now gives u a chance to find someone better. You will feel heartbroken for at least s couple of weeks until u actually realise and think 'Im better then that'
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You move on, you realise it won’t work and just carry on.
I’m a touch pissed at this because it was 6 months off and on and you are treating this as some sort of in depth long term relationship? My boyfriend cheated after 5 and a half years and I was there the whole time. Yes, your relationship meant something, but you were hardly having a baby or planning a life. It’s a break up. You move on like anyone else.
The biggest mistake was hooking up on the second date if he was looking for a relationship that told him that that is all you wanted deb and now he has what he was looking for and you will just have to wait until he is free again and it would be best to just let it go until he is free again
Let it hurt, and then move on. Understand that people regularly make stupid decisions that are counterintuitive to what is really best for them. Learn from it, and move on
First- Delete him everywhere Second- Ignore him Third - Forget him Fourth- Move on with your life
He doesn't deserve neither you and neither your time. It happened to me too. I slept with him on the first date after that kept seeing him for a year and then discovered he impregnated her ex. I simply forgot him. It was hard but it was worthy. Do the same and next time wait a bit longer to have sex, guys like the chase
@SpeshalK I Am sorry to say it but then it means he only wanted sex from you from the start and nothing more. Because in my opinion, even if a guy is not that much into you BUT you play a bit hard to get, he will automatically start chasing you more and therefore liking you more UNLESS he saw you jus as a hookup from the beginning. Is bad that he got what he wanted.
He was probably already talking to the other girl before talking to you or... he did like you at the beginning but then met the other girl and as GUYS LIKE THE CHASE he began to chase her to get her as a prize because he already got you all... is sad but true... but To be honest at the end of the day. Who the Fuck cares about him, he is useless and you shouldn't even be wasting time asking questions about him, HE IS NOT WORTH IT. And remember that Karma is real, one day someone might do the same thing he did to you to him. That's a satisfaction!! Girl go Out, get your nails done, buy the food tha
@SpeshalK buy the food that you like, spend time with who loves you and be happy. Because is NOT your Fault. And if you do ignore him, one day he will be crying to get back to you, and you can have the satisfaction to say FUCK YOU or.. simply NO
Forget about anybody than can treat another person like that. Move on with your life as if it never happened. You may think that it’s easier for men to that. It’s not. Its tough for everybody with feeling. It’s just what you have to do for self preservation.
See many boys tend to find other girl if his girlfriend is away.. your ex is no exception as he had done the same to you.. It hurts but if you see other side of situation than you will find that he wasted your 6months only coz a guy who is really in to you will never try to find his interest in other girls wen his girlfriend is away...
I personally don't think that a guy fall in a serious relationship in time span of just 6 months...
If his thought of you after knowing this guy for half a year and going on several dates with him is that you're a "one night stand that got too attached" then i'd say that you're better off without him.
Well, i dont know how you deal with yourself at the moment, but dont blame yourself. I hope you realize that his decisions are his and that it is not your fault. second, what would you rather want? Because behind every pain, there is a desire? What is yours?
I am not sure because the thing is, I am going to do my master’s in the same uni as him, in a very small town, so it is more than possible we will see each other again and very likely will have many connections. So I don’t really want to hate on him, I’d want to let it go so that I could be myself around him and not worry about the past
That sounds as a though one and i find it very strong of you to try to let it go! I dont know if my advice is accurate for this situation, but if i were in your shoes, i would have have a serious concersation with him. You say you think he doesn't care anymore and that it hurts you. I would tell him how i feel, why you have difficulties moving on and ask if he cares or not. I hope you can find some closure and move on!
Just continue with your own life, focus on your own progress in things you want to achieve and be open for meeting new people, just like everyone else.
You guys had a one night stand but did you guys actually TALK for that half of the year of you just kept your feelings inside for that half of the year?
We did talk a lot, we were seeing each other and also whenever we couldn’t dedicate much time to see each other we would at least just go do groceries together etc. i kept distance for quite a long time until he showed that he cares. Or at least it looked like he did
I see. I'm sorry that it ended up being that way but for now I'd just advise moving on and realize you don't need to waste any more time with this guy. Don't let it get you down.
Well,, you said it yourself.. you were just a one night stand that got too attatched. And there was never anything more then that. Best thing you could do i guess is just think of him the same he's thinking of you.
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He sounds like the type that's just trash and not worth worrying about. He knows how to sweet talk and get in girls heads so they think he likes them and when he gets bored he leaves, unfortunately you probably weren't the first and most likely won't be the last person he breaks the heart of. I can't stand guys like this
He’s a frog and will always be a frog, find another better frog than that throw that beautiful heart at him and eventually you’ll find a prince... the longer it takes the better because you’ll end up with a better and better frog each time you take a chance... wait or warts I can’t remember exactly how that goes :)
Life can be great at times and horrible at other times. Welcome to the real world. It is not as if you were married with kids and he ran off with some young piece leaving you with kids and bills to take care of. Just dust yourself off and move on. And learn that you can be too clingy and needy and do something about it.
Well, maybe you should not care either. Would you feel better if he did this latervon in the relationship? The sooner, the better. Tip, avoid one night stands and casual intercourse. Physical intimacy better suits one who is more intimate to your heart.
Your spouse, that is. Sex outside of marriage can cause distress and pain to your emotional and mental being.
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Your mistake was you have sex with someone that did just used you for a piece of flesh...
That's very cruel. He should have not string you along then dump you. He'll probably do it with the other girl too... I think do yourself a favor and count it as a lucky escape. Imagine being pregnant or having kids for * that*
I know how hard these situations are. It is not a nice feeling at all espically where you got feelings for him and he hadn't for u.
He sounds like a player to me and your better off without him. I would be thinking its his lose and now gives u a chance to find someone better.
You will feel heartbroken for at least s couple of weeks until u actually realise and think 'Im better then that'
You move on, you realise it won’t work and just carry on.
I’m a touch pissed at this because it was 6 months off and on and you are treating this as some sort of in depth long term relationship? My boyfriend cheated after 5 and a half years and I was there the whole time. Yes, your relationship meant something, but you were hardly having a baby or planning a life. It’s a break up. You move on like anyone else.
No, I’m not treating it as a relationship, it just the fact that after 6 months he refers to me as just a “one night stand”
The biggest mistake was hooking up on the second date if he was looking for a relationship that told him that that is all you wanted deb and now he has what he was looking for and you will just have to wait until he is free again and it would be best to just let it go until he is free again
Let it hurt, and then move on. Understand that people regularly make stupid decisions that are counterintuitive to what is really best for them. Learn from it, and move on
First- Delete him everywhere
Second- Ignore him
Third - Forget him
Fourth- Move on with your life
He doesn't deserve neither you and neither your time. It happened to me too. I slept with him on the first date after that kept seeing him for a year and then discovered he impregnated her ex. I simply forgot him. It was hard but it was worthy. Do the same and next time wait a bit longer to have sex, guys like the chase
Not this guy
@SpeshalK I Am sorry to say it but then it means he only wanted sex from you from the start and nothing more. Because in my opinion, even if a guy is not that much into you BUT you play a bit hard to get, he will automatically start chasing you more and therefore liking you more UNLESS he saw you jus as a hookup from the beginning. Is bad that he got what he wanted.
He was probably already talking to the other girl before talking to you or... he did like you at the beginning but then met the other girl and as GUYS LIKE THE CHASE he began to chase her to get her as a prize because he already got you all... is sad but true...
but To be honest at the end of the day. Who the Fuck cares about him, he is useless and you shouldn't even be wasting time asking questions about him, HE IS NOT WORTH IT. And remember that Karma is real, one day someone might do the same thing he did to you to him. That's a satisfaction!!
Girl go Out, get your nails done, buy the food tha
@SpeshalK buy the food that you like, spend time with who loves you and be happy. Because is NOT your Fault. And if you do ignore him, one day he will be crying to get back to you, and you can have the satisfaction to say FUCK YOU or.. simply NO
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Forget about anybody than can treat another person like that. Move on with your life as if it never happened. You may think that it’s easier for men to that. It’s not. Its tough for everybody with feeling. It’s just what you have to do for self preservation.
See many boys tend to find other girl if his girlfriend is away.. your ex is no exception as he had done the same to you.. It hurts but if you see other side of situation than you will find that he wasted your 6months only coz a guy who is really in to you will never try to find his interest in other girls wen his girlfriend is away...
I personally don't think that a guy fall in a serious relationship in time span of just 6 months...
If his thought of you after knowing this guy for half a year and going on several dates with him is that you're a "one night stand that got too attached" then i'd say that you're better off without him.
It's quite natural for u to feel such a way. But I think u have given him more than he deserves. U should have taken some more time for that
Well, i dont know how you deal with yourself at the moment, but dont blame yourself. I hope you realize that his decisions are his and that it is not your fault. second, what would you rather want? Because behind every pain, there is a desire? What is yours?
I am not sure because the thing is, I am going to do my master’s in the same uni as him, in a very small town, so it is more than possible we will see each other again and very likely will have many connections. So I don’t really want to hate on him, I’d want to let it go so that I could be myself around him and not worry about the past
That sounds as a though one and i find it very strong of you to try to let it go! I dont know if my advice is accurate for this situation, but if i were in your shoes, i would have have a serious concersation with him. You say you think he doesn't care anymore and that it hurts you. I would tell him how i feel, why you have difficulties moving on and ask if he cares or not. I hope you can find some closure and move on!
Thank you for the advice. I am not sure if he would want to see me again but if he will, I’ll definitely tell him that
Just continue with your own life, focus on your own progress in things you want to achieve and be open for meeting new people, just like everyone else.
It's no use getting upset over someone who doesn't care for you. Just learn from it and find someone who does care
You guys had a one night stand but did you guys actually TALK for that half of the year of you just kept your feelings inside for that half of the year?
We did talk a lot, we were seeing each other and also whenever we couldn’t dedicate much time to see each other we would at least just go do groceries together etc. i kept distance for quite a long time until he showed that he cares. Or at least it looked like he did
I see. I'm sorry that it ended up being that way but for now I'd just advise moving on and realize you don't need to waste any more time with this guy. Don't let it get you down.
Well,, you said it yourself.. you were just a one night stand that got too attatched. And there was never anything more then that. Best thing you could do i guess is just think of him the same he's thinking of you.