Dude why on freakin earth would you do that? Seriously what the heck and you don't feel bad at all. If all your going to do is cheat then why do you date girls seriously? If you keep cheating and if the girl you dated finds out and other girls find out then you won't ever date again just saying.
I have never, nor would I ever, cheat. I would feel very guilty and terrible about it.
I never understood cheating at all. I mean, why be with someone, if you're just going to cheat on them? Don't get into a relationship and just do whatever else you're doing. All you are doing is upsetting people who probably don't even deserve it.
Stop cheating!
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Would you feel bad if your girl was having sex with another guy? This is about trust and not lying. If you think having sex with other women is no big thing, why hide it? Be honest and find a woman who is down with your lifestyle. Find a swinger that will enjoy that type of lifestyle with you.
it depends on who you are with. I think people meet for just friendship but then they claim as relationship because they are afraid of meeting people. So they comfort each others then they go out with others. then, they shouldn't feel bad about each others but if they are involved seriously then they will know it's bad until they meet each others face to face.
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That's totally f**k*d up! I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends and never will! They are people man. They have feelings. Are you completely without a heart? a robot? You need to change or you will die all alone! Harsh but, true! Hopefully those girls find out and dump your a**! It's guys like you that make us all look bad. That's why girls think that guys are cheaters because there are guys like you!
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I think all guys are probably just like you HEARTLESS! You not only cheat you lie its disgusting...You promise a girl she's the only one and then cheat on her...And cut her low, try taking a walk on our side of the fence and you'll second guess what you are doing, it fukkin hurts asshole so wake up and smell the coffee! THIS MAKES ME SICK!
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umm... maybe you're a psychopath? Psychopath don't have feelings, just like you :)
obviously you have a problem going on in your head, but seriously, I think its because you just never learned to feel bad. It has something to do with the way you've been raised, no joke.
and I'm not insulting your parents at all! But maybe they were too indulgent with you.
I suggest you to go to a psychologist and fix this. If you wanna fix it...
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How can you not feel guilty? Why do you cheat on every girl your with? Have any of them ever found out?
I cheated a couple times. And at the time I didn't feel bad. I just didn't think about it. But then it was done to me by my husband. And I started to feel guilty about what I did. I was hurt too. I will NEVER do it again
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You sound like my boyfriend. Hey in fact you could be. Do you admit to not ever being faithful in the past, but then promise it could be different with the one your with? Yeah, my boyfriend cheated on me twice that I know of with the same girl. I get suspicious still and he denies anythings still going on, but I'm not stupid. Chances are, you aren't as slick as you think either. She prob knows what's going on but doesn't want to believe it because suprise! it HURTS! We know a lot more than you think.
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Wow that's horrible, you should try to stop because you can get addicted to it and it can ruin your future. How would you feel of all those girls cheated on you too?
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I've thought about how I would feel if I was cheated on and I know it would suck. I would feel insecure and wonder why I wasn't good enough. Then again I still can't apply that to them because I've found so many girls who are perfect for me and I still just don't bother to stop seeing other people if the opportunity arises. It's never that the girl I'm with isn't good enough for me. It's weird because I want to feel bad about cheating but I don't and nobody ever finds out or gets hurt.
Why don't you feel bad about cheating? And if you cheat, why do you even get in serious relatoinships, what's the point of a serious relationship, if you are not faithful?
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I still like the emotional connection of a serious relationship just like anyone else. I feel love and I'm very caring. It is unfortunate that my current girlfriend does not like sex.
Omg... if you loved her can't you figure in your mind that your actions would hurt her. Even id you have no remorse about it, a non retarted person would realize the potential harm it could do to their loved one.
Well you should start caring about the girl you are with. It really really really hurts to be cheated on if you unable to comprehend that. People do kill themselves over getting cheated on.
I always wanted to ask a guy who cheats, what do you do it? I just want to know the reason behind it...
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It's pretty easy to put everything that tells us that we shouldn't to the back of our minds and have fun. We usually don't mean anything against our girlfriend and would love it if they wouldn't find out. It's exciting and fun to be wanted by other women.
I've been cheated on many times. Women cheat a lot too. They also manipulate and lie as much as men do. People say they would rather be miserable knowing they are being cheated on rather than be blissfully ignorant to it and that's just crazy.
I'd rather know someone cheated on me because I think I have the right to break up with them. You may not think it is a big deal, but you must respect it is a big deal to others. So, if my guy cheated, I'd want him to tell me so I could find someone else. It is selfish not to tell your partner you cheated just so they don't dump you. Also, cheating is a major sign that you don't respect your partner, & I can't date someone who doesn't respect me.
Think of something that upsets you. When you cheat you break your word of commitment to her, which will upset her a lot. You say you've fallen in love with them but don't care if you hurt them deeply? Either you're stupid or lying.
Yes, I would feel bad. I don't think I could deserve somebody's love if I cheated on them. I won't judge you though, sex isn't all about love for me either. It can be, but sometimes it isn't.
meh...it would end up affecting her when you ditch her, or she finds out or she has her suspicions. Its difficult to have a consequence-less romp consistently.
I feel bad about about it but then I do it again. It's like buying the Carte' Dor and then wishing you'd bought the ben and jerrys instead. Temptation is overwhelming :(
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Dude why on freakin earth would you do that? Seriously what the heck and you don't feel bad at all. If all your going to do is cheat then why do you date girls seriously? If you keep cheating and if the girl you dated finds out and other girls find out then you won't ever date again just saying.
I have never, nor would I ever, cheat. I would feel very guilty and terrible about it.
I never understood cheating at all. I mean, why be with someone, if you're just going to cheat on them? Don't get into a relationship and just do whatever else you're doing. All you are doing is upsetting people who probably don't even deserve it.
Stop cheating!
Would you feel bad if your girl was having sex with another guy? This is about trust and not lying. If you think having sex with other women is no big thing, why hide it? Be honest and find a woman who is down with your lifestyle. Find a swinger that will enjoy that type of lifestyle with you.
it depends on who you are with. I think people meet for just friendship but then they claim as relationship because they are afraid of meeting people. So they comfort each others then they go out with others. then, they shouldn't feel bad about each others but if they are involved seriously then they will know it's bad until they meet each others face to face.
That's totally f**k*d up! I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends and never will! They are people man. They have feelings. Are you completely without a heart? a robot? You need to change or you will die all alone! Harsh but, true! Hopefully those girls find out and dump your a**! It's guys like you that make us all look bad. That's why girls think that guys are cheaters because there are guys like you!
I think all guys are probably just like you HEARTLESS! You not only cheat you lie its disgusting...You promise a girl she's the only one and then cheat on her...And cut her low, try taking a walk on our side of the fence and you'll second guess what you are doing, it fukkin hurts asshole so wake up and smell the coffee! THIS MAKES ME SICK!
umm... maybe you're a psychopath? Psychopath don't have feelings, just like you :)
obviously you have a problem going on in your head, but seriously, I think its because you just never learned to feel bad. It has something to do with the way you've been raised, no joke.
and I'm not insulting your parents at all! But maybe they were too indulgent with you.
I suggest you to go to a psychologist and fix this. If you wanna fix it...
How can you not feel guilty? Why do you cheat on every girl your with? Have any of them ever found out?
I cheated a couple times. And at the time I didn't feel bad. I just didn't think about it. But then it was done to me by my husband. And I started to feel guilty about what I did. I was hurt too. I will NEVER do it again
You sound like my boyfriend. Hey in fact you could be. Do you admit to not ever being faithful in the past, but then promise it could be different with the one your with? Yeah, my boyfriend cheated on me twice that I know of with the same girl. I get suspicious still and he denies anythings still going on, but I'm not stupid. Chances are, you aren't as slick as you think either. She prob knows what's going on but doesn't want to believe it because suprise! it HURTS! We know a lot more than you think.
Wow that's horrible, you should try to stop because you can get addicted to it and it can ruin your future. How would you feel of all those girls cheated on you too?
I've thought about how I would feel if I was cheated on and I know it would suck. I would feel insecure and wonder why I wasn't good enough. Then again I still can't apply that to them because I've found so many girls who are perfect for me and I still just don't bother to stop seeing other people if the opportunity arises. It's never that the girl I'm with isn't good enough for me. It's weird because I want to feel bad about cheating but I don't and nobody ever finds out or gets hurt.
yeah, well, once she finds out, she WILL get hurt,
and I guarantee she'll break up with you,
so you better stop taking her for granted, asshole.
Why don't you feel bad about cheating? And if you cheat, why do you even get in serious relatoinships, what's the point of a serious relationship, if you are not faithful?
I still like the emotional connection of a serious relationship just like anyone else. I feel love and I'm very caring. It is unfortunate that my current girlfriend does not like sex.
You obviously aren't going out with the right girls. I suggest you go for someone different who'll be able to keep you interested...
Because in all honesty, that's messed up that you don't feel bad at all.
Omg... if you loved her can't you figure in your mind that your actions would hurt her. Even id you have no remorse about it, a non retarted person would realize the potential harm it could do to their loved one.
Well you should start caring about the girl you are with. It really really really hurts to be cheated on if you unable to comprehend that. People do kill themselves over getting cheated on.
You don't have to do that, there are plenty of women out there that will hook up with men and just date them without exclusivity.
You're living up to your user name admirably.
I always wanted to ask a guy who cheats, what do you do it? I just want to know the reason behind it...
It's pretty easy to put everything that tells us that we shouldn't to the back of our minds and have fun. We usually don't mean anything against our girlfriend and would love it if they wouldn't find out. It's exciting and fun to be wanted by other women.
But what if your girlfriend did this to you, Karma always finds you.
I've been cheated on many times. Women cheat a lot too. They also manipulate and lie as much as men do. People say they would rather be miserable knowing they are being cheated on rather than be blissfully ignorant to it and that's just crazy.
I'd rather know someone cheated on me because I think I have the right to break up with them. You may not think it is a big deal, but you must respect it is a big deal to others. So, if my guy cheated, I'd want him to tell me so I could find someone else. It is selfish not to tell your partner you cheated just so they don't dump you. Also, cheating is a major sign that you don't respect your partner, & I can't date someone who doesn't respect me.
Think of something that upsets you. When you cheat you break your word of commitment to her, which will upset her a lot. You say you've fallen in love with them but don't care if you hurt them deeply? Either you're stupid or lying.
Yes, I would feel bad. I don't think I could deserve somebody's love if I cheated on them. I won't judge you though, sex isn't all about love for me either. It can be, but sometimes it isn't.
meh...it would end up affecting her when you ditch her, or she finds out or she has her suspicions. Its difficult to have a consequence-less romp consistently.
I feel bad about about it but then I do it again. It's like buying the Carte' Dor and then wishing you'd bought the ben and jerrys instead. Temptation is overwhelming :(