well...you know him better than anyone else. most of the time? if your gut tells you something? its usually the best thing. it always smart to ask someone about it, but your 1st gut instinct is usually the way to go. if you think he's got other problems somewhere else in his life and that's keeping him from you? you're probably right. the thing is...he's gotta trust you enough to want to open himself up. and whether its real or imagined, he think's he's got a good reason for not telling you these things. he might be embarassed, or ashamed. but whether its a good or bad excuse, he doesn't wanna talk. and that's something that you might want to think about before you get deeper into this relationship. this is something that might not ever change. I thought he might have another girlfriend, but if he doesn't have another set of friends or another "life" that you don't know about? then he probably doesn't have another girl. and if he doesn't wanna talk? well...there's really nothing you can do. if you're looking for answers from this guy, you're in a tough spot. good luck.
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he might have another girl he's seeing and maybe he's thinking of breaking up with her to be with you.
I hope you get some guy feedback on this. I'm in the same situation. He doesn't know what he wants. He's not all "there" or himself. He can't figure out why it "switched off" from wanting a relationship to not. Pretty much can't handle a relationship right now with work and school picking up. I always though I don't want a relationship meant I don't want a relationship with YOU, but can it really be that they can't handle it and its not YOU that's the problem?
I'm in the exact same situation! He doesn't know what he wants what is that? Come on guys please answer this!
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maybe he's going through something at home.
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