I agree with you completley something similar it is happenbing to me right now with a guy I like. The problema is that I like him vercy much but he does nto want a serious relationship maybe sex but taht is all and we are not strangers we are causal friends
I think she’s wondering why guys will say they don’t want a relationship, but will still want to spend time with a woman, take her out, have sex, etc.
so you are staying single til you are at least like 30? i just graduated from college, now i am in consulting and i only have time for my whole social life on Saturday and Sunday, it doesn‘t get better time wise tbh
@Calixx maybe to don't feel alone without getting something too serious. I don't think a dude can keep this for long since he will start loving her and he will want to have a relationship with her, but for the beginning I guess it could work.@Asker I didn't set a special age or a special achievement I want to get before getting ready for the next relationship. When my I would just fall in love today with the next girl, I guess I would want to be with her, but since there are no girls around me so often and I don't try to search them, it's unlikely this will happen. I have been working as a construction worker for about a year so I can agree with you there.
This is true, females seem to put a lot of meaning into things guys don't actually mean
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"Players" don't exist.
And this is why guys do not want a relationship. Women want to control men.
Well... men only know how to live when controlled by someone. First their mother then the spouse. It hurts your masculinity but its truth. You never find your socks Im sure
so even if you meet you dream girl, you'd let her go, basically because of money?
I don't think I used the word "money" or a synonym for it once. It's not just about money, but I do believe that although money can't buy happiness, it can afford depression, in bulk. It's more about getting the most out of my life and giving back more than I take from the world (again not talking about money). The opposite sex isn't the most that life has to offer us, I mean it makes the list for sure but it's definitely not my #1, and thats consistently made clearer to me by the day. I don't believe in "the" dream girl. There's roughly 3.5 billion women, if there's 1 there's probably several. And if there is only 1 I can't really rationalize spending time looking for her in a crowd of 3.5 billion. I'll keep my eyes peeled, but with those odds I'm far more likely to win the lottery.
then why woudn't you just say it like that?
I would but dunno what shit other guys say
Most men — like 3/4 of them or more — aren’t in that situation so will be different.So it’s not that men act a certain way, it’s that men you like act a certain way.The lady in the video is wrong about her blanket statement. Men and women both have drives for pairing and “getting around” — and their own versions at that. Saying men and women are just this one way doesn’t do nature justice.
You don’t even have a picture I know you are ugly as fuck dude stop lying 🤥
Wait where do I even post one?
No time movies. xx
You re completely right it is unfortunate for us women but ALL guys are like that
That’s a lie
... very much untrue, anyhow ;)
I assume you are not a man. This makes you bias in your answer. You are also rather young so I assume you haven't been in enough relationships to have adequate information on the subject.
@VIVANT I think the lady in the video is right. I mean if a woman wants to find a man to start a relationship she has first to meet a guy with the same goals as her someone who do wants a relationship and won't be playing with you, otherwise if you meet a guy who does not wnt a relationship is a waste of time trying to convince him otherwise. I mean you can be Friends with the guy sure casual Friends beause it is not that he will ignroe you completely, but more thant that is imposible. Maybe he jsut want to be casual Friends or just want to hook up and that is all.
please then tell her exactly that, instead of letting her guess what that means, just be absolutely honest so she gets the reason and can move on
The guy Im attracted to at this momento he is liek taht for my unfortuanate he just want to hook up with me. We had gone out in dates twice and had made out at the end of the date but not sexual intiamcy afterwards but he wants jsut get laid and I have told him no.
@kitty71 Well you clearly both want different things.You are right for telling him no. Just because he's not interested in a relationship, doesn't mean you have to change how you feel to please him.
What do u mean i dont have to change to please him how so?
@kitty71 He just wants sex, you don't. I'm saying you don't have to change what you want just to suit him.
The problem is that we are kinda of friends for 3 years and he for sure think im dragging this too long. But i haven't lost my V so for me taking a plunge is new to me im nervous afraid but also another downsize is that i think shoukd inkeep waiting and waiting more years when im much older and who knows if i won't turn on easily anymore to enjoy my sexuality with who knows with whom i meet in my future and if this attracted to a guy like the one im currently attracted or take the current guy that is available and who is a casual friend and we kinda of know each othrt?
1) he broke up and is still not ready2) he has something he needs to get done3) he does not like you 4) he does like you but now is not the right time 5) he lying 6) he wants benefits ( Y ) the cheeksyour job is to guess which one good luck usually within 2 weeks a girl can tell if he is lying so just pick out of the other 5
If you're like that you should say that you don't believe in being with one person. Because it's not the matter of not wanting it now it's how you feel about life.Saying that you don't want to be in a relationship now implies that you will be later.
@Caaarl Most of my friends know about it, and the few times I've acually had to reject someone, they already expected me to say that when they opened up about their feelings since they knew how I felt about relationships.
@AD240pCharlie Well that's convient
Exactly im in that position right now With a guy Im super attracted, he told me he does not want a relationship, he is 44, and since he finds me attractive but we do know each other for 3 years he wants sex with me but not a relationship, like hanging out to th emovies, like couples do or attend things together, he is not into that beause he does not want a serious relationship with me period.
@kitty71 yeah they want the benefits of a relationship but not a real relationship. I would just stop speaking to him altogether. Find someone who wants all of you and not just your vagina.
Yep, entirely possible.
@Anon-ymous1 Wht is entirely posible? The friends with benefits?
@kitty71 Yeah pretty much. I don't like the term "friends with benefits" but for lack of a better term, it is what it is.
@Anon-ymous1 so what term you think i tis better to say instead of friends with benefits?
@kitty71 Well like I just said, I don't have one. So I suppose it'll have to do for now.
Is that true? why
I mean is taht phrase a slang or the meaning behind it is true
No it’s not slang it’s true the bigger the beard on a guy the more of an asshole he is my dad is one of them
I think he just pulled that from his asshole.