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I didn’t watch the video.
Anyways I’m in a phase of my life where my married is ending.
The lesson I learned from it is, whoever is not on the same page as me, I’ll just respect that and let go.
Because I know what I’m doing and what I want.
If the guys doesn’t wanna be in a relationship then it’s understandable to an extend.
If a guy told me that I would understand because since I’ve been getting out of my own relationship, I also don’t wanna deal with anyone that doesn’t want the same things as me.
The girl should not beat herself up. Seriously is not that serious, is better being along that miserable. She should be more confident than that.
We will all find someone whenever and whoever doesn’t want us right now, who cares? 🤷🏾♀️ at this age a lot of people just wanna have fun. Let them. Achieve your goals in the meanwhile and then in the future you’ll find someone (me too, the girl too)
Hope I could help have a fun day
I think if a guy says this (and from my experience with my ex), he means what he says. He doesn’t want a relationship, which means he doesn’t want the commitment, or the fact he has to answer to someone/care for someone else, he doesn’t want to remain loyal to someone. Basically, he doesn’t want to put in the work that a relationship needs - he just wants to have fun with someone, with all the benefits a relationship offers (i. e., security, companionship, a stable sexual partner, etc). I wish i had listened to my ex then and not tried to force a relationship (even though it took my going on a date with someone else (before he became my bf) for him to step up his game and “want to” date me)
Basically, it isn’t worth it.
Lol it could mean his keeping his options open for a better woman? and doesn't want to give up the joy for sex. Or it could mean the guy finds doing other things more important than a relationship right now. See men dont think the same way woman do. If a man told me he wasn't ready for a relationship then id say okay... call me when you are otherwise his just going to use you for that thing between your legs.
I think many people who are dating and in relationships, should understand, that it isn’t always better for you to be in a relationship. At times, people should be single because they need to either learn to be independent, overcome some personal challenge, address duties that don’t have to do with them, but perhaps an obligation to a family member, etc. but what makes someone a good person to be with, lot of what makes that person a potentially good girlfriend or boyfriend, is how they developed themselves and matured while single, as it allows them to offer more in a potential relationship. Being continuously Co-dependent, and focused on trying to please someone, wrapped up in all that comes with a relationship does stunt your growth, makes you miss opportunities you can never get back and develop Co-dependent habits potentially, so no, you shouldn’t assume he just wants to be with someone else
You girls are more thinking about what men think, than man actually think at all.
I won't gonna watch the video, but I guess I'm still able to give a self-referred answer, because I'm also not looking for a relationship now. That doesn't have a deeper or tricky meaning. It's the honest and direct truth. Some guys like me have something else they force at. I have set my priorities on studying and taking time for myself. There's simply not enough time for a girlfriend. I had one and made the experience that there's not time left for other things when I'm in a relationship. So when I say I don't want a relationship now, I only said what I mean. I don't understand how girls already imagine something more complicated into what we say.
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If a guy likes you he wants to be with you. Not tomorrow not in the future. he's a player if he pull this shit. Its a great sign to move on and find a real man instead of a child
Some guys never want to get in a relationship and some are really saying.. they just don't want one with you by saying they don't want one at all. It happens all the time.
Can't be bothered to watch a video on gag so I'll just translate the phrase in the question from my point of view :
I need a pause from relationships or I can't see myself investing time and efforts in a relationship right now.
Usually it's the second one. With our daily social lives ; Work, Shopping, Chores, Family and Friends there's not always a lot of time for an additional thing to invest your time in. It is possible to be Overloaded with stuff to do.
If I were to personnaly use that phrase, it would probably be because I'm too occupied with other things.
I do believe that as a boyfriend we deserve some time together. That is why, if I can't offer that time due to my schedule, then accepting to participate into a relationship is bound to fail immediately.
Ense the "I don't want a relationship right now, it's outside of my capacity to do so."
Lol this is super interesting. But she's mistaken. The way it works (based on personal experience, and a bit of reading) is that guys are pretty easy when it comes to sex. We want to fuck lots of women. It's mostly to do with whether they're sexy, but sometimes, it's simply a hole we need. Unromantic, but true. A fucking hole to make a deposit in. Then sometimes we develop a crush. That is different. That is more focused. That means we would be open to a relationship. Then, sometimes that relationship turns into attachment. A deep relationship. Could last. Or, we find out you are super irritating or boring or just not really what we were looking for.
So basically, women, you have to find those guys that crush on you, not just the ones that want to fuck you, and then give it a shot, and you may be in luck, you may not. Hint: It helps to have stuff in common.
I think it's a little grey. I'm sure sometimes it's genuine, sometimes just used as a cop out.
I actually used it with someone I'd been talking to online in the week. It was a half truth. I am going through some stuff, I realise I may not be in the right mindset at the mo, but she was also not that attractive to me and was coming on over eagerly, not quite bunny boiler but on the way, thought it was gentler to let her down by putting it on my shoulders rather than pushing my perceived negatives against her.
Only watched the first half couldn't watch any further. What bullshit. I know girls like her they want to be In a relationship for all there lives and never evolve themselves. They don't know who they are only who they are in relation to there so.
But I also know women who are not like that. Independent strong women.
I can agree that maybe there is a primal urge different. But to assume that is the main part of guys or main force. Or even a important one. You have societal pressure, morals personal experiences, environment, education, upbringing. And many more. What if you just came out of an relationship and you just want to find yourself. There tons of reasons not to want a relationship. If true love strikes that point might change but it's clear that you ain't it.
I would suggest there’s more context than meets the eye.
Simply liking a guy brings the suggestion that other girls also like him because women’s range of guys they like are narrower than men’s.
If you like a guy, the other girls are also more likely to like him too and he’s more likely to have a lot more attention. Having a lot of attention and feeling confident that another girl will come along is a strong reason why a guy would feel comfortable not getting into a relationship. That or he could have just gotten out of one or he could have had bad experiences. All of these and more are possible and should be considered more likely simply because you like him.
That’s the context. Your dating guys that feeling they’ll always be other woman around for when they want a relationship, or they had a lot of girls and that has led to bad experiences, or they get enough attention and affection that they don’t feel the need for a relationship.
She's pretty spot on. I have my goals prioritized, I don't see how a relationship would help me achieve what I want quicker unless the girl had the same goals or I took her away from her goals. The only option in a relationship for me currently is to slow down on achieving my goals, and that's not fair to me, and would lead to resentment. If you want a man, you'll have to wait or find one that's there already
She is simply wrong. I'm a good looking guy I've been told. I've had the opportunity to have sex multiple times. All men do not go around looking to fuck everything they can. Most do but all men don't. Regarding the phrase, she is discussing there could be multiple reasons why a guy would say something like that. 1. He is telling the truth, he is emotionally not ready, ex. someone broke up with him or someone close died. 2. He is a fuckboy and doesn't want a relationship, only wants to fuck. 3. He doesn't like you and wants to be nice about it. 4. He can't have a relationship right now because he doesn't have time. Ex. School and practice for some sports take a lot of time. 5. He is tired of relationships because for ex. he hasn't been single for a long time or he found that previous love only hurts in the end. Here are my thoughts on the subject.
He wants just sex, or he might like you but afraid of committment. Doesn't see the point of a relationship unless he feels it not just someone he likes or loves but keeper material, otherwise he's wasting his time and yours. He never sowed his oats like he wished and wants to do that before commiting to a relationship again... so many possible reasons
It means he doesn't have anyone else but he's also not looking for a relationship with you. If he finds a girl he's interested in he'll change his tune pretty fast. That's basically how I am, but all the time. I don't want a relationship, but when I meet certain girls throughout my life I've wanted one with them
Wtf
No it's not like that
When guys say something like that we mean it that way. You are cool and chill but not my girlfriend type
That's not even friendzone. We just dont want to give you wrong hopes of getting a Relationship but we also dont want to insult you
ehh.. she's partially right but ignoring a lot of the issue.
Relationships are different for men. As things are right now most women are HIGHLY toxic and relationships are incredibly risky for men. So in the face of anti male culture, laws and a saturation of toxic women it should be no surprise that men put off commitment like they do.
In fact it's shocking that men commit at all really.
A relationship can be stressful, you have to focus on the needs of someone else half the time or more, making sure to stay in contact. Its pressure and if you are trying to focus on yourself and say your career or schooling then it's not needed. While its easy to just be casual with someone without that pressure that commitment may wreck whatever he's trying to accomplish in life at that time
Well depends if you decide to move on and find out that he went and start dating someone else then you know he lied to you. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't want to be with you because you don't know whether or not he lying to you.
It means exactly what he said. Guys don't bullshit their feelings like women. A woman saying this often just wants you to try harder to win her affection out of insecurities. A guy means exactly what he said which is I don't want a relationship right now. And he'll be annoyed if you try for anything else.
When a guy says "he doesn't want a relationship now" he means "he doesn't want a relationship now".
It's that simple. He just doesn't want it. Casual dating, maybe. friends with benefits, maybe.
Get over it. He's fully within his right to not want a relationship. Relationships aren't a requirement to be successful in life, and undoubtedly he has other priorities.
The girl in the video is exactly right, but that doesn't mean some guys don't use it as an excuse too
He wants the perks and not the title basically friends with benefits
People study a little biology and think every over exaggeration they make is real science. We are intellectual beings. Our instincts are behind our conscience and conscious intellect. This seems true to some extent tho
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