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When a guy says "he doesn't want a relationship now"? (Page 2)
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Take it from the Master... He Isn't Into a Steady Betty. xx
No time movies. xx
I only use this line when I don't like a girl at all and I dont wanna gurt her feelings is like when girls say" I see you like a brother" aka friendzoning to the highest degree
Obviously, some braindamaged guys DO play games like that (the ones that don't have their ego fulfilled as she put it). She's right about most cases, though - believe him.
Mostly its the guy asking this, it could either mean that he really doesn't or you doesn't like you or that he likes someone else or if you two are really close then it could just be the first thing
He's just trying to save your feelings. Pretty much anyone who says that isn't interested in you.
Just getting out of second marriage, so not the woman just the way it is.
If a guy says that he means he doesn't want a committed relationship with you but at most he could offer you a casual friends-with-benefits.
You re completely right it is unfortunate for us women but ALL guys are like that
I would read no more into it than what he said. "He doesn't want a relationship now". Remember... Guys are not smart enought to say something and have it mean something else. Were pretty much still cave men when it comes to expressing ourselves.
I am in this position now where I almost have to say that phrase. Because first, I like someone else. Second, I like that girl but not enough to be able to love her.
please then tell her exactly that, instead of letting her guess what that means, just be absolutely honest so she gets the reason and can move on
It means he's being honest with you that he's a player. Sheesh! He's being honest about it! We just can't win!
In my case, it means that I hate the idea of a relationship. I feel trapped whenever I'm committed.
If you're like that you should say that you don't believe in being with one person. Because it's not the matter of not wanting it now it's how you feel about life.
Saying that you don't want to be in a relationship now implies that you will be later.
@Caaarl Most of my friends know about it, and the few times I've acually had to reject someone, they already expected me to say that when they opened up about their feelings since they knew how I felt about relationships.
@AD240pCharlie Well that's convient
He either got out of a serious relationship and is taking a break to gather his shattered heart, or he just enjoys being single and hooking up more lol usually one or the other
That girl is mental and should be put back into high school or something
No u r wrong he means he is not ready for relationship now at present
I don't necessarily think it means he doesn't like you. He probably does but he wants to be able to see other women as well
It means he doesn't want to be in an exclusive relationship. . . with you.
When a gay says "he doesn't want a relationship now" it means he doesn't want a relationship now.
She is right. Either he's just being honest with you or he's looking to hook up with any ties.
there are so many things to this would you like me to explain
1) he broke up and is still not ready
2) he has something he needs to get done
3) he does not like you
4) he does like you but now is not the right time
5) he lying
6) he wants benefits ( Y ) the cheeks
your job is to guess which one good luck
usually within 2 weeks a girl can tell if he is lying
so just pick out of the other 5
They just want sex without commitment..
Exactly im in that position right now With a guy Im super attracted, he told me he does not want a relationship, he is 44, and since he finds me attractive but we do know each other for 3 years he wants sex with me but not a relationship, like hanging out to th emovies, like couples do or attend things together, he is not into that beause he does not want a serious relationship with me period.
@kitty71 yeah they want the benefits of a relationship but not a real relationship. I would just stop speaking to him altogether. Find someone who wants all of you and not just your vagina.
Yep, entirely possible.
@Anon-ymous1 Wht is entirely posible? The friends with benefits?
@kitty71 Yeah pretty much. I don't like the term "friends with benefits" but for lack of a better term, it is what it is.
@Anon-ymous1 so what term you think i tis better to say instead of friends with benefits?
@kitty71 Well like I just said, I don't have one. So I suppose it'll have to do for now.