My girlfriend of 2 years left me for a drug dealer and now wants me back.

[Anonymous]

These are her words: " I just feel like he has a future, and can take care of me better."

Haha here's the back story for anyone that cares to know how ridiculous this is.

She left me 2 months ago. At the time I was really stressed out because I was studying for the MCAT and getting ready for finals. So I barely had any time to do anything. Her, being the supportive girlfriend that she is told me that she didn't think I would pass the MCAT and I wouldn't get into Medical School because I was having a hard time juggling 20 hours of classes and studying for the MCAT the whole time. 2 days later she tells me that she's leaving me because her new drug dealer boyfriend has a future and is a lot more fun.

Well I took the MCAT and I passed with a really good score and I'm about to get accepted into a really good Medical School with full scholarships as soon as I get my bachelors at the end of the summer. She found out that I passed the MCAT and sent me a long message on Facebook saying congratulations and that she made a huge mistake and her drug dealer boyfriend got arrested 2 weeks ago. She basically begged me to take her back.

Of course I'm not even considering doing that now that I know what kind of a cold hearted bitch she is. I still have at least 10 more years of studies left and there's no way I would ever take her back knowing what I know about her now.

But I just feel like for the next 10 years I'm not gonna be able to be in any relationships because my whole life will revolve around my studies.

[MrWombat]

**NEVER** take her back or have anything to do with her. A med student knows what kinds of diseases she'll be carrying.

As for the next 10 years - yes, you won't have time for relationships. Women require a great deal of time and energy which you won't have spare. That's not to say you can't get laid, of course, but soul-sapping relationships are really not an option for you.

*Beware* of women who go into nursing specifically to catch themselves a doctor. Those are the kinds of women who have the attitude "once I marry me a doctor, I will never have to give another blow job". What I mean is: they are fake, they change radically if you are unwise enough to marry 'em. They are tempting, because they can actually support you during your studies.

The general advice for all young men goes double for you. DONT get married. DO NOT get a chick pregnant.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

First, awesome decision to never take her back. Never should and hope she enjoys a life of sh*t with her druggy boyfriend cause she was too stupid and shallow to really care about another, only about herself and what they can give her.

Second, don't worry about it. It will be hard since you'll have to study and work so much, but you're bound to find a great girl who's smart and also in the same field as you which means you'll have something in common. You can help each other study and I'm sure you'll find someone. You both might not be able to spend too much time together, but you'll both understand why and should, hopefully, be supportive and loving for each other.

Best of luck.

[chrislight]

May be you should just pimp her out so she pays for your education.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Sounds like a good idea to me too :P

[star709]

Im glad you did that, that shows that you do not what you have until it is gone.

I think you mmight be able to have a realtionship, maybe she will be a nurse or doctor, will understand exactly what you will be going through and how busy you will be.

[SlickRicky]

"But I just feel like for the next 10 years I'm not gonna be able to be in any relationships because my whole life will revolve around my studies"

10 years without poontang does things to the mind man...

i've seen some things man, some stuff

[bprox]

well don't forget many drug dealers make bank, supposedly sum make 250G a week now of course that a big SUPPOSEDLY either way... what's the question?

[shacodraco]

Lol what?!? You would have to be pushing some really big weight to make that much a week. Most drug dealers are low life college age kids who use all their money on the very drugs they sell and usually end up broke and homeless. QA you should be happy that you got rid of that dumb ho. She's just your typical gold digger and not worth your time man. Congrats on passing the MCAT's tho. I heard those are hard lol.

[bprox]

hmm well a brick is selling for 1200 around here and that's of weed, so you only have to sell 20 bricks... or could sell coke which is a lot more but idk... and don't forget you slip a little coke into someones weed and their hooked, instant user

[shacodraco]

haha dude its not like that at all. have you ever done coke? you don't get addicted just like that. plus no one would waste their coke by sprinkling it on weed so they could hook someone on crack. and anyone that doesn't notice little white spots on their weed is retarded.

[bprox]

haha man all I'm saying.. its worked before I know sum kid who it happened to, sad story he was smart too, wasted his life chasin that powda

[Anonymous]

Take her back so you can f*** fer brains out and then dump her like the hoe she is. Don't forget to give her a $5 bill on the way out.

[NotJustAnotherGuy]

THAT WAS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS GOING TO SAY! Except I was gonna say skull f***er.. but I guess both answers are equally as eloquent.

[JoelG]

She was in it for his money, or the free weed. I wouldn't take her back.

[bprox]

she could smoke out in tha lambo

[Anonymous]

She's a gold digger...