This had happened to my best friend
Why do some guys beat up the person their girlfriend cheated with instead of taking revenge on the girl or breaking up?
That question has been unanswered since the 90s and before
https://www.youtube.com/embed/IOaFh-yJk_k2:07-3:15 shows just this issue.
I think it's the pushed sense of weakness boys perceive of girls so therefore they go after the guy, even if he's innocent. Only way to stop is the elimination of simps/simp attitudes. Cause though the guy that was about to beat up Will in the vid looked tough, he didn't have the balls to direct anger at his girl and not Will but like many situations, probably forgave the girl quick after a bit of crying/begging, proving his simp side.
A guy that actually respected women as equal not lesser, would have also directed anger at her too, which brings another point for another day, that seeing another human at the very least as never having the capability to be equal to you or more due to demographic like gender is in fact a sign of weakness.
What this means too? Guys have been taught to be simps since at least the days of prostitution, where being born a girl was made profitable in itself.
So ofc it makes sense that with the simp brainwash for so many years, guys turned against each other for the sake of women, even when women hurt them and do shitty things.
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To let her know she cheated on me with a wimp and as much as we want to knock her out also we don’t hit girls , well most of us don’t so we take are anger out on the other guy , When my ex cheated on me i busted her meeting him at a hotel the first thing I did was take pictures for proof for the divorce court and then I got out of my car and started walking toward them , the second he saw me he ran for his life I started chasing him to kick his fucking ass but he got in the car and sped off , so right there shows he knew she was married but still going to fuck her anyways which makes him more of a piece of shit and the fact that he was married also cheating on his wife , but little did the piece of shit know I already told his wife , as for my ex I called her a fucking whore and told her her things will be on the front lawn , she was crying and trying to apologize and I just laughed and said Fuck you you slut you will be hearing from my attorney , and then I raced home and threw all her shit on the yard and locked all my doors , It was a horrible feeling being lied to and cheated , people that can do that are the biggest pieces of shit on earth and deserve everything they get coming at them for their actions I have no sympathy for cheaters , they are pure scum. But people constantly do it , so my thing is if you are going to cheat , end it with your partner cuz that right there should tell you that you don’t love your partner , After my ex , I dated girls that I ended up sleeping with to find out they were married after the fact , so it just goes to show does love really exist?
Ok first of all, no matter what if my s. o. cheats his ass is getting grilled and fed to vultures. No matter who initiates the act that led to this, he is 100% at fault from his side, no fucking doubts. Even if it was the woman who was aware and deliberately made the move because she likes being the homewrecker, my question to my s. o. would be SHE DID WHAT SHE DID WHY ON EARTN WOULD YOU GIVE IN?
Now, to the girl. If she wasn't aware of his relationship at all, maybe the dude straight up lied to her or at least lied by omission, then I won't do anything to her, I won't even mind to be on good terms with her and stay in touch.
But if she was aware and she deliberately did it, or she didn't know but still went along and didn't care, or anything other than genuinely not being aware then yes she is also getting grilled, cuz the cheating s. o. and the homewrecker belong in the same skewer. 😂😂
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Same thing could be said about the girl why does she get angry and blame the other woman and not her husband like the girl who posted yesterday on here about her husband cheating on her and the girl he cheated on her with is now working at her place and she wants to confront her and even tell the boss that the girl slept with her husband while in the comments there are girls telling her to get the other girl fired from her job
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Primitive instincts still exist, jealousy, pride are feelings / emotions that cannot be easily mastered by a man in modern days. It is assumed that both the girl and the man in a relationship belong to each other, neither of them is responsible for himself, the partner takes over the personal responsibilities of the other person, thus creating an emotional connection. The 3rd person who intervenes in this connection alters / destroys the previous one. Revenge on one's partner is a consequence of evolution and a sense of the law. A partner as you say, "why doesn't she take revenge on me but fight with her lover?" he does it out of a weak sense of the law because it is less risky for a person who cheats to accuse him of aggression knowing that she is guilty, so in most cases he assumes punishment / revenge. I consider that the first idea is much more beneficial and healthy than the second.
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Because they are simps. First they are emotionally out of control. Second they believe you don't hit a lady but obvious logic is if your wife is cheating on you she's not a lady, she's just à nasty slut. You don't have to treat a whore like a lady. And tbh when you do that is why a lot of women cheat in the first place. You know how many women wish their man would slap them around when they act like a bitch? They lose respect for a man who won't put them in their place and then they cheat because they don't respect you.
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I would do the same, unless the guy didn't know that he was assisting a cheater, if he knew everything then I would be pissed that a guy would support something like that, and I also don't want to hit my girlfriend but I want to hit someone, my girlfriend won't get off the hook either though I'd probably yell at her or something like that, definitely a heated discussion on it.
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UGH, Tor not so smart! Drag knuckles, and beat up rival monkey!!
They are IDIOTS!
I'm not going to jail, for assaulting the prick that she cheated with! If I find out, that she is a cheating WHORE, I'm dumping her, and throwing all of her shit out of my house!!
Bye, Bye, Whore!! -
We'll be punished less for beating him up than we will for beating her up. Less liely to be arrested, and if we do less jail time.
Some women will also be turned off by the other guy if he gets beaten up, especially if she watches it happen, because in her eyes he's been emasculated. If I ever caught my girl with another guy I'd beat him up and completely humiliate him. I'd leave her but I'd want to make it much less likely that he'd get to stay either. -
Watch dog syndrome.
Relationship is for them like a garden they have to defend. Therefore another dog is the guilty one who pisses on the lawn in the garden, not inanimate garden who allows it.
Garden is a metaphor for property, so is their girlfriend a property who others dare to touch. -
I don't know but I would slap the shit of of her not him because he is not raping her but she allow him to have sex with her. Mostly it's her fault... she didn't want to stay loyal... so I would kick her ass and breakup... by the way I would have goodbye fuck 🙂
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Why do some girls claw out the eyes of the girl who fucked her boy friend?
let’s conclude human nature? -
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1. You can't beat up the girl
2. The other guy is an asshole for knowing that the girl already was taken, and still not caring to stay away. -
It's really dumb. The man she had sex with could be anyone. I want to see them trying to fight a bodybuilder. Hoes belong to the dumpster with head first.
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Because a man has to defend his territory.
I personally would also go nuclear on a cheating bitch.
So 2 people to the hospital and imm off to jail😁 -
Because it makes us feel better after beating the shit out of the guy and humiliating him.
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Blind faith on one’s girlfriend or boyfriend.. always find wrong in others
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My issue is generally with the partner. There are times where I might of taken issue with the man not often
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Im to old to care i ain't fighting over a hoe she for everybody and she can run up her mileage ima dip the min i get wind of any cheating
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It has to do with fragile egos and feeling emasculated by the other man.
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Because they broke the Bro Code. There will be repercussions.
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Hormones involved in feelings of love can make people act irrationally.
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For the same reason that women are rarely held accountable for anything they do, they are seen by society as children.
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Both are accountable for they're actions, so to everyone what they deserve.
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