Should I dump my boyfriend if he cheated on me? (Page 2)
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Yes I don’t care how much you like him. My grandfather always said once a dog gets a taste of chicken your going to have to kill him. Ain’t no fixin the guy.
I don't think you should stay with him. I know you might be thinking about your children, but do you really want them to be influenced by your boyfriend?
Did he actually cheat on you, or did he just lie about where he was? If he cheated on you, or if you strongly suspect his intent was to cheat on you, then dump him.
Girl I would dump him. Believe me, I had almost the same exact thing happen to me. I (stupidly) gave another chance. And then another. Finally I realized he clearly didn't respect me at all and I ended it. I'm so much happier now. It'll suck for a while but it's better than constantly having him cheat over and over. You'll feel much better if you get to end it too.
that's why he's going behind your back because he got you knocked up again. and im willing to bet the first time he got you knocked up he was screwing around with different broads behind your back as well. he was only in it for the looks and the nookie and nothing more. sorry hate to burst your bubble but when you confront him about it he'll deny it or try to act like it's nothing or no big deal. he'll play it off. watch
That depends. Do you currently have a "Kick Me" sign taped to your back side?
Yes, leave him. You deserve better than that. I'm currently going through the same and am trying to figure out how to do it with the kids.
@candy273
sorry to hear that
Thanks you.
Before you make your mind up, check to make sure you got your facts straight. People tell white lies also. Not just lies. Doesn't mean he's had sex. Maybe they are friends... Out for lunch.. Find anyone he doesn't know to check him out... Hire baby sitters, check him out from distance.. Your decisions are for the rest of your life.. No turning back..
If you don’t have absolute proof, hire a PI to be sure. If he is cheating, you need to decide whether you are willing to put up with it and to risk getting STDs. Personally, I wouldn’t put up with it.
I'd dump him, he did it and he lied about it. I was cheated on but he confessed it and has done everything he could to set my mind at ease. Even doing things that I hadn't asked for.
If you're not deemed enough by the dude, you better go look for somebody who's less esigent.
I know I'd be dropping him.
Boys will never respect you if they think it’s okay to do it once. It’s an addiction. I promise he will nkt stay loyal once he’s already cheated. Break up with him, know what is good for you and what is not. If you don’t prepare yourself now, you will repeat and find someone bad in the future.
Oh Kairi ☹️
Look at you. You're a total hotty. Why are you putting yourself through this maaan
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SIMP!!!
If this is a pattern of behavior (such as it’s happened more than once) yes, move on from him. Take him to court for child support if that’s the case.
Yes. No excuses. Cheating means the end of a relationship.
If you are certain he is then yes for sure. You don’t deserve to be treated like that
Yes if you ever have solid proof instead of just word of mouth.
Seeing someone with someone is not hard proof of cheating
I don't think you have any other option than to leave him.
Break up with him... he will more then likely always cheat on you if he doesn’t find the Lord.
Yes, they cheat on you they should be dumped and forgot. The rate at which a couple can fix things and the partner to not cheat again is so low you might as well play the lottery.