My ex girlfriend left me for someone else on February 21st and she seemed so confident in her decision. She told me I could move out of our house and she could stay there. Well I didn't, we had done no contact for 2 half weeks then she started reaching out about small things and just talk. Then she started calling me here and there. I asked her why she hasn't changed her mailing address to where she lives and all she said was "I just don't want too". Then when I told her I was going to move out of the house she told me "don't move" and "I still love you I'm just lost". Why does she not want me to move? She even kept some pictures of us and still has a picture of us on her phone as my contact picture. She even told me to hang some stuff back up that she made for both of us. She also said "I don't know what is going to happen" and "I don't know what I want". So do you think she has Grass is Greener Syndrome? What are your experiences with it? (by the way we were together for 1y 10m and we NEVER fought or argued) Thank you for reading ❤
Do you think my ex girlfriend has "grass is greener" syndrome?
I don't know what goes on in people's heads sometime. You seem like a good guy and you seem to have had a good relationship with her. All of a sudden she finds somebody else and wants you to move out. I don't know what the ownership of the house is but you need to legally take steps about that before it is too late. As time went on maybe she sees that you are a great guy and she screwed up. It;s up to you but if you think you want to you might give her one more chance but after that it should be adios.
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Never fighting or arguing may be part of the problem. You need to show one another exactly who you are, good and bad, and let one another know it's ok to have a major strop even if you're wrong I'll still be there and love you, and will not leave. She's in trouble. It's great that you didn't leave. It's great that you still talk. She's trying to work it out. It sounds like she still loves (or found it harder than anticipated to be alone). If you want her, give her time, be her friend, and see where it goes. It could be she's trying to make space for you long term. This could be the making of the two of you. Cross fingers. Of course, if you're not up for that, this is your opportunity. She messed up, she said it's over, you respect that, you don't feel it anymore, you'll be moving out when you're good and ready. All the best. Bye bye.
She’s still weighing her options and hasn’t closed the door on you completely. Sounds like you turned out to be her backup plan.
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The fact she could leave you at the drop of a hat can you ever truly trust her ever again I would not if I was you if somebody gives you trouble you can get on your knees and pray for them do not turn your back on them ever congratulations on paying off your vehicle that's a gift Jesus name amen.
You'll have to ask her. What did she think was missing that she could find elsewhere? What does she want to do now? What do you want to do? You can't wait indefinitely for a decision from her.
Pretty much sounds like that. She left you cause she thought the other person is good for her but apparently that's not so. Now she's trying to cling on to the idea of you. Don't engage in that. Stay away.
She invited me to workout and she came to my house a few times (and sometimes even clean it) and when I would bring it up and all she would say is "I dont know what I want". So maybe she just needs time?
No actually the guy works at a grocery store, has no education, no hobbies from what I can tell and has a man bun. Me on the other hand I have not 1 but 2 paid off vehicles, went to school for welding and have a welding job, and a extremely good balance in my bank account. I'm just wondering if she will ever see this?
Even if things work out this time she's going to keep looking for another better guy and this will happen again and again and again. If you want to be part of that game stay with her if you don't please leave her while you can.
She cheated on u and then decided to make her sidepiece her mainpiece, WHILE trting to kick u out of ur house. Ditch that bitch. No arguments? Just means she's covert
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