Why so quick? and am I that easy to be replaced? did I not impact him while we were together? I was so good to him?

[Anonymous]

We broke up 3 months ago and he went back with his ex again. I was such a good girlfriend I attended his football games. We broke up because he lied to me but pin it on me but he was in the wrong. Why did he get in a new relationship so quick? It hurts to think that I’m easy to be replaced which I know I’m not.

[btbc92]

It's not that he got into a relationship so quick. He was already cheating on you. He was already looking to try to get his ass back but at the time, it was more unlikely inconvenient for him, or she was already doing her own thing and wasn't paying attention to him. After she more likely found out that he was involved with you, she probably figured that she could try again, and he was ready to reciprocate. A lot of people are not going to focus on what's good. A lot of people focus on the benefits. If this has to do with a sexual relationship, this is exactly what happens most of all. Not just emotionally. It has everything to do with a spiritual connection, and most times when that kind of situation going on is not a good thing. A person who treat you like that and you done nothing but good for them, either has two things going on. Are they have low self-esteem or there is a situation where they cannot afford to be in any kind of serious relationship. But a lot of them tend to be very selfish depending on if they're the one that was chasing you first or have a way that goes, and then they basically string you along because out of their own personal selfishness and desires. Or, there was already planning on using you as either a backup or Ida leaving you on the back burner, but at the end of the day is still a rebound. Once they pretty much get into a situation where the cars are in the right place, then they go to go for the risk that leads them to Victory basically. Well they leave you with nothing. So it's not again that it's quick, it's simple fact that you like boundaries, you yourself obviously either don't love yourself or have low self-esteem. And turn you a try to the person that took advantage of you because you was easy to manipulate. Most importantly because of your accepting nature, in the end he took advantage of you. People will do that when you are too accepting of other people and you like boundaries. When you toughen up and you have more boundaries to protect yourself, you going to eventually keep those kind of people out that is not good for your life. But because you don't have boundaries, he was able to get in because you both wanted something. You too did not want to be lonely and don't want to be alone. That's a problem. When you don't learn to love yourself, when you don't learn to understand your volume you're worth in the kind of relationships that you desire people, you end up in this particular situation. It can happen with any kind of relationship is not just in dating. But if you seeing the cam situation and dating, you can bet that your friendship, family, in relationships with other people are similar. Because the root core has to do with your identity as a person. If you don't know what your identity as a person is, then you going to try to shape your identity with other people, if not just other things.

[ohshee]

I hope you believe that it's true see what the real deal is is that you're not that easy to replace because you are special you are beautiful you are kind you have a beautiful heart a guy that really loves you it would almost be impossible for you to be replaced but when a guy doesn't love you it lies to you you never loved you and then he proved it by getting into another relationship. And the reason why he got into another relationship that's because you caught him being in real self you know the truth about here and that was probably embarrassing

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't for one second mean this in a cruel way but nice girls ARE easier to replace and you want to know why? Because you don't have to work so hard in the relationship.

It's a HORRIBLE but true fact that guys who are treated badly by girls have far more respect for them, and are a) less likely to cheat and b) less likely to dump them

[Asker]

Wow…

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm sorry for my brutal honesty, but if you sit and think about it for a second. Am I wrong?

[CentralPerk77]

Some people, like me, really don’t like being alone so they tend to move on quicker. If you follow astrology at all certain signs also tend to move on very quickly. Does not mean you didn’t have an impact, it just means their approach to life is different.

[Honesttguy]

He could standcto be alone so quick fix jumped back on someone else