Like did you guys breakup but easily still get sexual sometime after the breakup? Was it because you still loved them? Or was it that you were just so used to them? Did they always make their way back to you when you tried to move on in life from them? Its crazy because I was happy to breakup and get away from him, but he was such a smooth talker and i guess i still had a bit of love for him and i just always took him back when he came sweet talking me. I’d like to blame it on being young and naive but it also felt like some weird stockholm syndrome. I wanted to get away but i was also okay if i didn't. It was so toxic good Lord. It took about 5 years to truly escape. #FeelFreeToList
Was it easy getting over/away from the person who took your virginity?
It was easier after I realized he didn't just use me physically but he actually faked the whole relationship from the beginning and was after my growing food business and grandma's money. He wanted to get 1/2 of my income and share; 1/2 of everything without marriage. In addition, this user (not a player because at least players use women for sex but walk away afterwards, not prolonged this act for years) owes me $1,223 that I'll never get back. He lied about his age in the beginning too and confessed to me many years later.
Do I miss him? Hells nope. How on earth can I miss a total fraudster, someone I never knew, who never loved me from the start, who used as a commodity? My psychologist classified this person as a narcissist-sociopath? If anything I'm super glad I got rid of this monster.
Just like your ex boyfriend... this user was a smooth talker too and love bomb with too many loving, sweet text messages on my cell in the beginning. Eventually his real persona came out.
For me this is the easiest to forget... just for the fact that I loved someone that never existed; a fictitious character he created. So if I loved his character and not the real him then there is nothing to miss.
I would've rather prefer the regular event where they loved you but end up cheating on you. At least there were emotions once. At least they are average people, not sociopaths.
Since I had my first time with someone I didn't love, it was easy to get away from him. I actually broke it up after 3 months but he kept coming back and I took him back once and never again. That was 4 years ago, but he still texted me every 5-7 months again, the last time was this January but I guess it was finally the last time he reached out to me
I think its a bigger deal for a woman than it is for a man since woman have a physical appearance that shows. I have only done the deed to one person in my life after marriage and only taken one person out on dates in my life. I thought we would be together forever, but my ex was dating the guy I had hired to do the home repairs while I was at work. She changed the locks on me and I had to live in my van for 5 years and pay spousal support, had to buy her a house and was separated from my child. I treated her well, but hardly gave her the words to express my love for her, I helped her do repairs and took her to her medical appointments after the divorce. I have not wanted to date anyone, just be friends and look out for friends and be there for them if they have a stalker following them, etc. I don’t plan on looking for anyone for probably another 4 years since now I dedicate my time to be there for my child and go to their games, performances, etc. I would only date someone who wants to take it slow and not get in the way of my time with my child.
We had a lot of chemistry but we were both the kind of people that liked being right. And it's not like we're always that kind of person, but we brought out the spicy competitive edge in each other.
He ghosted me and then when I confronted him, he admitted that he ghosted me and it hurt, but like only for 3-6 weeks. I met someone better shortly after and I fell much harder.
we're still best friends... we were friends first, then a couple... and then remained friends after we took different paths by mutual agreement, and when we finally did it was bittersweet
because we were young (ages 16 to 19) and although we firmly believed that it was for the best, at the moment we were unsure, and uncertain of many things but no regrets, none at all...
and here we are still, still great friends... and every time we see each other again it does feel like that longtime friends... rather than "my ex"
well... we were very young so that's what I see nowadays, was much easier to remain friends with the first therefore younger relationships, than it was with the later/older ones
yes, for em I have an easy time than most people in breakups. For me me and my first boyfriend (the one who took my virginity) was young at that time about 16+. We still had a lot of growing up to do and once we grew up to about 18 years old, we both have kinda changed and wasn't like the person we first loved and we both was pretty obvious that we lost feelings so we eventually after couple more weeks broke up with a pretty decent ending like no hard feelings or anything. Since we didn't end off badly, we still keep contacts till now even though we rarely talked but we are still friends despite all this
The girl who took my Virginity was the girl I liked a lot. We dated for a few months but it wasn't as dreamy and magical as we imagined , started to face a lot of bumos so we decided to end on a good note and remained friends. One thing I didn't tell was I really enjoyed going for it with her , she was the first and I dated a couple more girls after that but she was the best back then so I told her and we did it for a while until she found someone who was better than me. .
It was a one time mistake. I never saw her again and never really thought about her until I had to answer the question about how I lost my virginity about a hundred times since I joined GaG.
Not your fault and I don't expect you to think about it every 5 mins. I'm simply gonna do *insert T-Pass* lol. Honestly no hard feelings at all. It's cool. I was able to talk to you about it and you listened. Can't ask for more than that. All is well. 🐻👍
Since it wasn't really a relationship, it was relatively easy. And no. I don't see her anymore. Don't even know where she is. I'm sorry yout first time was with a person like that.
Well all i care about now is the next person who is hopefully my last cause i pray he's the one who can give me nothing but great experiences compared to the horrors of the past lol
ya I was kinda hung up on her. and she cheated on me. and the dude she got together with was a dud in reality but had more experience in the sac than me obviously at the time. lol
haha. she regretted it later in life. she actually married and had a kid with him but he's a lay on the couch dud. she eventually divorced him. shoulda stayed with the dog humping a football guy cuz I'm a doer and my skills are vastly improved. lol!
We lost our virginities to each other. It was beautiful. We actually reconnected this summer. I've fallen in love since, but I've never forgotten her. Amazing chick:)
One day maybe. If we live in the same city and we're at the right place in our lives. If not, I just hope she finds the kind of love she deserves even if it's not with me. Though deep down I hope it IS with meeee
haven't seen or spoke to her after break up. There were a couple of text exchanges months after which weren't constructive. I'd have a coffee with her, try to unpick why it went so wrong so quickly. But I've moved on
Never got any closure, that's the only reason why I'd meet with her. a lot happened at the end with unexpected pregnancy, break up, miscarriage all within a few weeks. We never talked about any of it
I think everyone’s different but I know I’m the type that will get attached. And that’s why I haven’t had sex yet. Until I met a guy who treats me well.
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