Recently he kissed another girl. What to do with my confusing ex?

[tippsanna]

so my ex broke up with me about 20 days ago, but I've still been going to his house, he still wants to kiss and have sex with me. but recently he kissed another girl, I was furious because he still tells me he loves me and all this. then on Saturday we went out to the cinema, then went back to his, he told me he was so so sorry and all that and that it didn't mean anything and that he would do anything to get me back. but I was so angry I just said no. but on Sunday I had a total change of heart, and thought that because of all the stuff he said to me on Saturday that if I asked him out, he'd straight off say yes. so I met up with him, told him I missed him and asked him out. he said no. but again he kissed me, telling me he loves me, then he asked me to stay at his house. he always tells me he loves me. I've told him I'm confused. I can't sleep at night! I've been up until 5 am every morning confused and stressed and he's been texting loads of other girls, it hurts me so much. but I can't let him go, I just want him back! what should I do ? :(

[pandasgirl91]

Omg I had this problem too, kinda not exact. My theory is, is that he's telling you he loves you and all that because he wants the sex. My ex used me like that...I could be wrong though, but to find out, next time you're over there, just simply ask if we could just hangout if he tries to kiss on you and have sex ( I know it's hard cause you have feelings for him) but just try it, if he gets mad or says sure but don't really do anything such as talking or whatever, he was only using you, if he stops inviting you over or quits texting you/ calling you, again he was using you, protect yourself hun, finding out now is better than finding out later, and if he does love you he'd open his heart and leave the other girls alone.

[JovialJove]

according to me.. as a guy.. he is just using you.. I know it is hard to kick him, but you don't have any other option.. don't increase your feeling for him anymore.. or else later if he dumps you, then it'll be very much hard for you to get over it..