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Should I breakup just because he’s a bartender? (Page 2)
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That Bartender is way the fuck out of your league. You need some fucking meds and a padded cell. Holy fuck, you're far to neurotic to be let out into public view.
… do you have another user name?
@On_cloud_wine Why would I?
Just curious.
@On_cloud_wine Thats some clearly pointed curiosity.
Sorry I’m more clear than I want to be.
Everybody can cheat.
People around drunks and high earners have a higher opportunity.
I would say you probably need theraphy to get over your own issues first.
You have your answer right there, if a relationship means you can't sleep at night...
Should I divorce just because my wife is JUST A HOUSE MAKER? You are absurd.
Most bartenders are only friendly to get good tips and otherwise avoid annoying drunk patrons like the plague. so I wouldn’t worry.
I am sure that the first thing they teach bartenders is absolutely no hanky panky with the drunk patrons.
I think your problem of trust is a huge red flag. Every guy has options to cheat. Seek therapy, or maybe just end it.
Do you think it would be an unhealthy occupation for him in particular?
The hours are crazy. I worry about his health. He’s naturally very charismatic though and I don’t want to make him feel like he is unable to do what he wants. So I just don’t know
If it was an upscale place it might be ok, otherwise it seems like a nuisance occupation.
No I don't think so if he was an attorney Maybe not a bartender.
Nope don’t break up. My brother was a bartender and he had a good relationship with his girlfriend now wife
Quit focusing on his job that is shallow focus on him is he the kind of guy to cheat. I know many bartenders that are very monogamous.
you will "Hopefully" deal with your issues... if you leave him, you will still have the same issues... is he worth the effort to "Fix Yourself"?
I think it's fair if you wanna breakup with him for that reason, I don't think I would want to date a Bartender either.
If I were you, I’d work on yourself first. When you get more confidence, then it’s ok to date men.
Believe it or not that was my dream job as a kid right up there with pornstar , race car driver, rockstar , power ranger and underwear model
Jesus get your shit together. Just because he’s serving alcohol doesn’t mean he’s cheating.
You should share them with him. Who knows? Maybe he can ease them.
It is your jealousy Nd insecurities. You may have been cheated on before. But give a chance
At least you know the problem is you. Tell him to go sekk for a woman, because he's currently with a girl.
Seek
You should break up with him and then work on yourself and get some therapy.
I dont think you should be in a relationship right now. Focus and work on yourself. Maybe try a therapist.
Yeah nooone wants to date someone whos scared they'll cheat on them
If you can’t trust him, then sure. So you both can find better.
don't! better trust and regret then doubt and regret
yes break up. he deserves better
People can cheat anywhere.
I think the ones that get cheated on are the ones that let their partner know they're insecure about it. in my opinion even if you are insecure about it don't let them know. Be cool about it. I went out with a girl and we went to a dance hall and the girl into some guy she knew from a while back and she wanted to go say hi and asked if I wanted to join. I said you're welcome to go over and say hi. She was shocked that I was cool with it. I have a feeling they dated at some point, but she came back after like 15 minutes and I think he got mad at her or something because she mentioned something about him still being the same with a bad temper. Honestly I don't think her wanting to go talk to him like she did was all that appropriate but I didn't make a stink about it.
The point is everyone has skeletons in the closet they can go back to.
Especially women
That will never work out
Exactly my thinking. Is it a true stereotype what they say about bartenders or am I just a pathetic insecure idiot? Feel free to be brutal
I think they’re flirt kings and probably meet a lot of women doing that
Get a job at the same place as a server.
Oo! Great idea!
I’ve seen a lot of people do that.. stay available at least 1 or 2 days a week just to spy
@on_cloud_wine Spy? Lol. I don't think that's what he meant.
@Jamie05rhs uh... observe and deter, I suppose.
@msc545 No. That's not really what you do; either. The point is just to both be at the same company together working as a team. You don't have to add paranoia into the mix; it's not necessary.
@Jamie05rhs She is already very fearful.
Exactly.. observe and deter and remain close friends with at least one person who always knows what’s up
@on_cloud_wine I'm sorry, but I think that's toxic. If it's that bad that she can't even trust him so much to the point that she has to spy on him, then she should just break up with the guy.
@Jamie05rhs I’m not saying that’s what she should do, I’m just saying a lot of people do that, because some guys are indeed horn dogs, but I do think she should get over her insecurities because that might ruin things for her
He hasn’t given her a reason to be untrustworthy
@On_cloud_wine Ah. Gotcha.
4th likely profession to cheat.
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Noting he treats you good an is nice
Geez, imagine if he was a business man.
Lol. Those are the ones you worry about... All them out of town trips.
@red324 lol
I'll be your boyfriend instead
This stuff is all your issues.
Why do you think bartenders cheat all the time?
Yeah I mean you're not ready for a relationship.
Don’t settle with a bartender
If you cannot trust him them end it off.
Is he an Indian?
if you don't feel safe, break up with him
Talk to him about it
Girl get a life
Very helpful. I hope you’re having a lovely day
No.. he is working hard
"he is working hard" you mean working hard on?
Yes do it
Seek help!!!
I believe that’s what she is doing here 💝🙏
Yup. Break up
Leave him.
no, of course not.