Are you or your (ex) partner/s usually to blame for the relationship ending? (Page 2)
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So far I haven't been dumped as far as I'm concerned but I would necessarily say I was the reason for every relationship ending, they were all my decision but typically I had a good reason
My ex was the devil incarnate. Beelzebub in the flesh. She was a vicious, unfaithful c*nt. A previous relationship ended for logistical reasons. I have feelings for her to this day.
Both. I had an online boyfriend i cheated and told him soon after and we broke up. Second was a short faux relationship that i forced and he was an opportunist. He cheated and told me and i left him.
Honestly, I am. I break up with the guys I'm with overtime because I grow out of love with them. It's made me scared to take anyone seriously. I feel like I'll waste their time despite not trying to.
I think I was only ever broken up with once because she claimed I was too depressing. All of my other exes I broke up with because they either cheated on me or I didn't feel anything other than just friends. 🤷🏻♂️
First Girlfriend was using me as a rebound to make her jelious.
Second Girlfriend lack of commication and pandemic.
It wasn't mutual decision, but we were both to blame for breaking. Lack of communication and lack of effort in some areas.
Well there are many reasons that have to deal with a breakup your options are limited to the only options available
Me and my ex were both toxic to eachother that relationship was never meant to last we both were responsible
For me it was my partners fault. I found out she cheated and she then admitted to it so the relationship was over at that point.
Depends on which one. I can only think of two where it was 100% her fault. One where circumstances killed the relationship, and three where it was mutual.
She no longer loved me, but I'm at least partially responsible for that love fading.
Question is if you can be attracted to a healthy person. You are the chooser
blame is kinda negative term... responsible? we were both responsible, I was more so as I brought in "me" and I had my problems with intimacy, self image... as well brought in infection of another woman that had me hooked. that's poison. She had her issues but I made them worse, she's responsible for her side... that's the thing in relationship, try to get where there is good positive support and limit the negative feeback loops so stress is at a reasonable level. Get in negative loop... destroy the strongest bridge.
Priors that didn't go anywhere, I'd say I was responsible for causing their demise or staying in too long with friendzone. I see my issues that lead to it, but also see their issues and they should take responsibility.
regarding friend relationships (male - male), it's both, lack of communication and commitment. Generally speaking, I think it's me though as I don't stay engaged and it fizzles, I see the pattern, so it's me.
Both. In any failed relationship, neither side is perfect and contributed somewhere to the fall of the relationship.
Well, mostly I was the one breaking up.
I think I might have some commitment issues and I can self sabotage a lot. I start to overthink a lot and question everything.
My ex. I gave so many chances. People cannot change, lesson learnt.
In my first relationship, she broke it off, and our engagement
In the second relationship, I blamed her for the breakup
I've never been fully to blame, but always been partly to blame.
No one was to blame. We just weren't compatible. We differed on some main issues.
I don't like the question. Relationships are not competitions. It always takes two to tango
Sorry that you don’t like the question. But, it’s obvious knowing that relationships take two people, but it can take one person to break it. This question was meant for people to reflect on their relationships and realize their wrongs or the wrongs of their old partners, and if they have changed themselves or learned what to avoid or fix.