Yesterday I sent her a message that looked like it was meant to go to someone else and said i sent it her by accident - after meeting with my therapist I realize this was highly manipulative. I think I just was trying to have an excuse to start a conversation. I can be very impulsive. I happened to send something I actually was going to send someone else and she asked if the message was referring to her and I said yes. Anyways we talked and It was kind of pointless and confusing and left a bad impression. She then asked me later that night if I sent it on purpose and I lied then called her and said I did after she said she trusted me. Then we talked for a bit and I impulsively said I loved you, cursed and hung up the phone when saying goodbye. I texted, sorry bad habit. But never got a response
I feel like I need some indefinite no contact and don't know how when I know her number by heart. I feel like a fucking moron and like I undid all the goodwill from how mature I had been previously (something she commented on earlier). Did I lose all respect from her?
Edit: I also want to add, any advice on how to regulate emotions and acting impulsively would be appreciated. And also should I apologize? After giving space of course, or just let it lie and not do it again