Ultimatums are a necessary evil at times, but not always. In this situation, if he refuses to work out and be healthy, you can break up with him.
On the other hand, if you have never spoken to him about hitting the gym, you could always tell him politely that he has to start exercising and being healthy. Weight fluctuates a lot for many people depending on their personal life situations. I, personally, wouldn’t give him an ultimatum. It will only destroy his self esteem.
If I were you, I would ask him if he wants to go to the gym together.
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No just break up with them you're clearly not in it for the long haul
My ex was overweight and it didn't bother me at all. Some people say beauty is skin-deep, but I say beauty is what you believe. If you want to breakup, do so. The real issue is with you, not with them. Breakup and give them the chance to find someone better.
They arr too stupid to think that. Dont fall for a guy who judge your physical appearance rather go for a guy who respects you.
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no ultimatums are NEVER a good idea in relationships. period
Probably not. But if you want to be shallow, be my guest
That's a horrible thing to do
Ultimatums are not good
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