I dated this guy for 4 years. We had a messy break up but we both knew our love was genuine. Him going on a long break like this actually hurt me a lot when we were together in the past which ultimately ruined our relationship bc during another break I left him for someone else. He doesn’t take accountability bc I had mental struggles from trauma that he was aware of. Instead I’ve been taking all the guilt and blame for years. Years past and I held on to the image of him, I was young when we dated 17-21. Now I’m 25 and have matured. We rekindled 3 years later and then he stopped talking to me, then he started talking to me again. he would call me every day and ask to see me almost every day. I did a lot for him in that time, like a lot. I told him I still had feelings for him and he immediately told me everything he didn’t like about me from our past, mostly focusing on my mental struggles from trauma I dealt with although he mentioned he seen a huge change in me. I cried bc he would remind me of everything that he didn’t like after I admitted my feelings. I accepted his feelings and I took accountability and tried to heal. He asked to see me again and he admitted he still have feelings too, which confused me, and then asked to kiss me. A kiss turned into sex even though I told him I’ve been holding out for a long time for someone special. I thought he was special. it continued but I felt something was wrong. I asked him that if this continues I would appreciate if I have some exclusivity, we don’t have to be in a relationship, just only romantically involved with each other and he refused. It broke my heart. I felt used. We had an argument and he wanted space abruptly. I sent him a message saying how he has hurt me now and in the past and how it has affected me. he told it hurt him and he hasn’t spoke to me. I desperately did everything I could to show him I still care and I don’t want to hold on to negativity but he got even more overwhe and refuses to talk
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Girl just move on. If someone can go a month without talking to someone they say they have ," feelings" for then they really don't care in actuality.
When I had my girl in my life I didn't like to go even a day without her.
I'm sorry girl but you just gotta move on cause it's not working.
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He was and is an asshole. Move on and cut him out of your life once and for all.
You'll find someone who loves and cares about you and supports you in your mental struggles.
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