Break Up & Divorce

He stopped talking to me for over a month after an argument, is that right?

I dated this guy for 4 years. We had a messy break up but we both knew our love was genuine. Him going on a long break like this actually hurt me a lot when we were together in the past which ultimately ruined our relationship bc during another break I left him for someone else. He doesn’t take accountability bc I had mental struggles from trauma that he was aware of. Instead I’ve been taking all the guilt and blame for years. Years past and I held on to the image of him, I was young when we dated 17-21. Now I’m 25 and have matured. We rekindled 3 years later and then he stopped talking to me, then he started talking to me again. he would call me every day and ask to see me almost every day. I did a lot for him in that time, like a lot. I told him I still had feelings for him and he immediately told me everything he didn’t like about me from our past, mostly focusing on my mental struggles from trauma I dealt with although he mentioned he seen a huge change in me. I cried bc he would remind me of everything that he didn’t like after I admitted my feelings. I accepted his feelings and I took accountability and tried to heal. He asked to see me again and he admitted he still have feelings too, which confused me, and then asked to kiss me. A kiss turned into sex even though I told him I’ve been holding out for a long time for someone special. I thought he was special. it continued but I felt something was wrong. I asked him that if this continues I would appreciate if I have some exclusivity, we don’t have to be in a relationship, just only romantically involved with each other and he refused. It broke my heart. I felt used. We had an argument and he wanted space abruptly. I sent him a message saying how he has hurt me now and in the past and how it has affected me. he told it hurt him and he hasn’t spoke to me. I desperately did everything I could to show him I still care and I don’t want to hold on to negativity but he got even more overwhe and refuses to talk
He stopped talking to me for over a month after an argument, is that right?
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