To walk away - relationship stuff?

[Confuzzled1]

Previous question I have posted gives details to something’s but past few days have been a yo yo. Anyway I need an opinion or two. Guys and girls welcome.
Weekend of reconnection has happened. Was nice. Now there’s this hot n cold crap, has basically said his anxiety is all over the shop , places me at the centre to blame for this, blocked me again on fb ( childish I know) , sprouts conversation that can’t deal with anxiety, doubt, disruption, thoughts and same chats - can’t and won’t. I’m so mad and so friggin annoyed I lay it on the line. Feels like a battle of prove I’m not unfaithful or how much can I glow up or what do I bring to table. He is having hard time that I don’t drink with him and then the moment I get “single” I go out by self and get drunk. I went alone to pub , drank alone and left alone, in my drunk state I started walking back “home” ( to his house- 4 doors down from pub, turn round when I realise what I was doing and go back to my place- alone. I would have made it worse if I ended up going there. How the heck do you deal with this sh*t show? 9 days and he reached out then boom drops me like a bag of shit again. Any advice would be great.

[Espresso-Grande]

I couldn't deal with a relationship like that

While it's important to be there for a partner when they are struggling with issues and anxiety, it's equally important to take care of your well-being too.

That type of behavior he's displaying will just cause you anxiety, frustration and confusion.

People with issues rarely think about the affect their behavior has on their partner

I was seeing a guy who was blowing hot and cold. It was as though he wanted me one minute, and said and did things to prove it. But then the next minute, he started putting up a wall and pushed me away. It caused me too much heartache and anxiety that I had to end it for my own sanity.

No matter how much you want to be with someone, it won't be a healthy happy relationship if one person is blowing hot and cold. It's causes insecurtites and too much doubt and confusion about where stand

[Confuzzled1]

Yes it’s causing me some serious mental health issues. I am trying to show and say all the right things , but it is not getting through. I’m at a loss

[Espresso-Grande]

Nothing and no one is worth jepradizing your own mental health. It won't get any better unless he changes. Sometimes you have to let go of some people, even if it hurts.

[Guy13]

You can’t be trusted. Your judgment is poor. Can’t get laid unless drunk it what it looks.. kind of person. I wouldn’t be comfortable getting close to you. I would drop you too especially if you drink with everyone else but not me. I would have been out long time ago…

[Confuzzled1]

What makes you think I should be mistrusted? I’m genuinely interested in your opinion?