Should I take a man back after he kicked me out?

[Anonymous]

He kicked me out today knowing I did not have anywhere to go or support. I have faith he will reach out soon.

We argued, but it should have never gotten to the point of calling the cops on me and kicking me out. We both could have handled the situation better. Buts it’s like all the good in our relationship, and then this. We could have worked it out; I am unsure if I could ever take him back. Now, which is sad.

Backdrop: I chill and clean to live with and have been working hard towards my goals, and he was supposed to support that, and he always claims he loves my company. I have even caught him staring at me in my sleep. So all this but then to have the heart to kick me out? What.

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+1 y

I am working on my back up plan but it’s a scary world and it is sad

[Anonymous]

I mean unless you have somewhere to go or money to rent a hotel room then it sounds like you have to go back with him regardless, at least for now. But relationship wise I don’t think I’d take him back because now he’s showing his true colors and they aren’t pretty. You don’t want to be silenced or feel like you’ve gotta walk on eggshells and kiss ass because you risk being thrown out. Playing devils advocate, since the cops were called I’m guessing the fight was pretty explosive and maybe he thought it was best to be apart. But kicking you out if you have no where else to go and he knows that, is pretty cold.

[Anonymous]

He doesn't have to take care of you. You're an adult, you should be able to do that yourself. Not seeing how he's an asshole in this situation.

[melnc]

How are you now? Did you find a plan to solve the problem?

[Asker]

I’m more than safe rn. I appreciate your concern ❤️ he has yet to check on me. so behold the future … we shall see.

[melnc]

Well, I hope your life gets better.

[RuthlessAggression]

No

That's called desperation