Will baby mama's new boyfriend replace me as my sons father?

[davidclax17]

My baby mama broke up with me about 2 years ago and we have a 3 year old son. She has recently gotten serious with a guy and he is living with her. I have court visitation and I have always been in my son's life. I'm just worried with the new guy around she will try to get him to replace me as the dad. She tried to do this with me when we dated with her other son from another guy. I would insist that she not do that and she got angry. It was actually part of the reason we broke up. I realize that she will probably do this with this other guy.

[Chris_7565]

I was fortunate that I had already raised our son to a teenager by the time my ex started living with some other guy.
I feel for you, she has no consideration for anyone else, and her new boyfriends should know better than to move in with a single mom and her kids from other men.
I don't respect that.

[Hameean]

I think you answered your own question. The only other option I see is to speak with her boyfriend man to man about it. She could try all she wanted to but if he doesn’t participate then it squashes all of that. Even if that doesn’t work, your son will always be your son. No one can take that away from you. As long as you are being the best father you can be to him he will see it and love you for it. Also, no matter what they do try not to let them get you out of your character. As best you can, try to rise above any pettiness they may throw at you.

[XXblack88]

Ok it should have been a red flag if she tried to get another mans child to call you daddy when you were dating her. If she did it before she can and will try to do it again. The best thing to do is just be in your son's life as much as you can.

[Guy13]

Wow, what a jam. The only thing I can think of is to have a great relationship with your son…”when is Daddy coming…see Daddy this weekend…pick me up at school”. So it’s damn obvious that the boy benefits from having you front and center 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/mICWFTmE440

her judgement will come

[LeeannaDD]

Only if you let him