My fiance broke off our engagement all of a sudden, later I came to know that he did so for a rich woman whom he met, I feel depressed, what can I do?

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We dated for around around 2.5 years, he proposed and I said yes, but afterwards he started to behave kind of weird around 1 month ago, and then around 1 week ago he broke off our engagement saying that we are incompatible, I tried a lot to get him to tell me what happened, because we were going really good, I was totally clueless, but yesterday I came to know that he started to date a rich woman right after breaking off our engagement, I feel depressed, is it possible that he will miss me or will ever understand that I love him. I'm totally heart broken and I feel worthless.

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

You might not want to hear this right now, or believe it, but you dodged a real bullet! Instead of being sad, you should be the happiest girl on the planet!!! Why?
Because you almost married a total, fucking loser con man who had you thinking he really loved you, and that he was worthy of YOUR love!

Think about this for a minute.
1) At some point during your ENGAGEMENT, he met another woman and began seeing her.
2) Why? He wasn't satisfied with you AND he was tempted by her money.
3) He lied about "not being compatible" because you were plenty compatible for over 2 years, until he met Ms. Moneybags.

Obviously, this guy wasn't committed to you, and he was easily seduced by money.
Is that someone you want to be with your whole life? No. Now that you know he's like this, ask yourself... "Do I really LOVE this man, or this kind of man"? If you answer "yes", ask yourself "why"? This guy just dumped you after 2 1/2 years for the sake of some greenbacks.

You should be GLAD he's gone. You were spared even MORE heartbreak than you know. Imagine if this would have happened after you were married for a while and he met the rich girl and then DIVORCED you! Believe it, that would have happened. Your being married wouldn't have stopped this guy.

You should be celebrating, not depressed or feeling worthless. That's ridiculous. He's the worthless one in this equation, not you. So seriously now, go out with your girlfriends and celebrate your NOT being conned anymore and making one of the biggest mistakes of your young life! Toast to being free of this ass hole!

jshm2 · Accepted Answer

Bloody hell! 2.5 Years! You were practically a live in maid and informal wife!

You made the mistake of living a lie for 2 years. If a guy isn't giving good signals, or moving to proposing within 5 months of the first real date, then you know it's only temporary.

Think of it like a job, if you're not happy working there for 5 months then you're sure as hell not making it permanent.

In your case, chalk it down to you being too slow and next time pick a guy whose not going to string you along for that amount of time.

erandal · Accepted Answer

You are better off without him. He obviously cares more about material wealth than love and you don’t want a douche like that dragging you down.

You need to see it as what it is, a lucky escape. Now go out with your friends, enjoy yourself and when you are ready start looking for somebody new. Do not ever go back to him as men never change where these sort of things are concerned.

DermalPunch · Accepted Answer

A man who asks about a woman's money is a thief. I mean you will feel bad. But you will just have to take it day by day and focus on the positives in your life. Get some if you don't have any.

Finchie40 · Answer

I know being cheated on is a horrible feeling and devastating when someone we give our heart to does that to us and we constantly question ourselves as to why they did that to us and what did we do wrong? But the truth is you did nothing wrong because cheating is a selfish action , the person that cheats is only thinking of themselves , they weren’t wearing your shoes like you were wearing theirs so look at it this way, He did you a favor , realize you deserve someone that will stand by you like you stand by them , realize you deserve someone that will make you a priority like you do them , Love only grows when both partners make each other a priority and sacrifice for each other because things won’t ever be perfect , but when you find someone that removes their selfishness for you , you are best to do the same for them if not you will end up just like your ex , so realize in yourself that you deserve the same in return

globetrotter22 · Answer

I know it’s not easy to hear right now but you likely dodged a bullet. That’s sociopathic in a way.

However he won’t likely get away with being a male gold digger the same way as vice versa. Men who do this (and very few can) look beyond pathetic to society and get little or no respect form other male peers.

Staximus · Answer

Like the other guys said, this is a blessing in disguise. You should be happy that you did not marry that piece of shit. He should have never been talking to the rich girl behind your back. It's better now than him cheating on you when you're married. Now you can go out and find a guy who is a good person. Beware of shady smooth talkers.

exitseven · Answer

oy- yes, it sucks but now you know what a dirtbag this guy really is. He married for money. I have usually found that if you marry for money you end up paying for it.

hoqhuuep · Answer

You're not worthless, this particular guy just rejected you. There are billions of other guys out there.

Gent207 · Answer

I am so sorry for your situation. There is no greater revenge like happiness and success.

Guy13 · Answer

Send the Rich Woman "Thank you " flowers with a an attached note saying, "No Return Policy"j

driven159 · Answer

Be thankful you were not married to him when he found the rich woman this way is a lot easier than a divorce just move on and find your dream boat, he will be a lot better

Anonymous · Answer

Be thankful! He pulled this s*** before you married him. It sucks that you wasted 2.5 years on him. But the good news is you didn't waste decades more.

AndrewAzul · Answer

I think you dodged a bullet, no one deserves something like that to happen to them

Jamesshinobi · Answer

crash the wedding get real drunk and sleep with his brother or best man.

Wise4myage · Answer

Shake it off and move on, and be glad you found out now and not later.

Anonymous · Answer

Uh oh. you Got a male gold digger most likely. It happens to many of us. Too bad. Move on and cut him out of your life.

maccount · Answer

You most be grateful because he showed he's true nature before you go further in your relationship and have kids... Etc

Wubs3000 · Answer

Nah fuck that goldigger.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

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