He's playing mind games for sex?

Anonymous
On our first date he talked about wanting a 1 week or 2 week "break" to a cottage (owned by his friend which he knew was vacant) in a coastal town. He said 3 times like "okay so about the break". This was during the holiday season. However, he had no plans to be together for New Years Eve. He also checked me out once from top to bottom and then all of a sudden hid behind a desk (his lower half was hidden behind the desk, he was wearing skinny jeans). He never talks about deep things, hardly ever shares anything about himself while asking me what is up in my life and wanting to know everything. He tried to make me jealous and I ve caught him meeting other girls at bars.

I haven't had sex with him and I stop texting the moment he stopped replying to my texts. He looks really bitter with me and he got jealous and passive aggressive with me when he saw me walking around with a guy friend.

He had asked me where I was going and I didn't tell him I was going to see my guy friend (whilst he told me he was going to meet someone and didn't even get back to my text when I asked him if he's free then he can let me know)

After he saw me with the guy, he stopped talking to me and got really weird but then started talking again. Now I'm pretty sure he's texting and sleeping with another girl yet he tried to make me jealous by sitting and having lunch with 2 female colleagues he hardly ever talks to and whom he initially ignored before suddenly deciding to go and sit and have lunch with them.

What does this guy want?
He's playing mind games for sex?
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