Is he just trying to get laid?

[Anonymous]

This guy I had a crush on for about the first month i knew him randomly started flirting with me. He's a quieter/shy guy, but he definitely knows how attractive he is. He also probably knows he could get any girl he wants. For 3-4 months we've been in the same space (work/school) and he hasn't said more than about 10 words to me till last week. We haven't even had a formal introduction. All of a sudden though he's flirting with me like an elementary school boy and giving me crazy intense eye contact. And it didn't start out with friendly chat, he just jumped straight into giving me tons of attention. I'm a quieter and more hesitant girl, also younger. Maybe he's trying to get laid because he thinks I'm an easy catch?

Yes

No

[BackAgain]

No i highly doubt it! If he was just trying to get it in, he wouldn't take so dang long esp if he's the type to get any girl.

If he's not extra bold to make a move, he must like you and cares what you think. He's afraid of rejection and doesn't know if he can get you like to go out on a date.

Look with shy guys you gotta give em a bit of a push to get the ball rolling. I'm not saying ask him out, but introduce yourself at least. It's nothing odd or obvious saying that you like him. The easiest line is "Hi I'm ______, what's yours? ... Nice to meet you, so what's your major?" Or my personal favorite because I actually need it "Did you get the notes at the end of class because I write slow?". If you're bold enough suggest studying together.

[pooper89]

He probably does not have another girl on the radar at the moment so he has turned his attention to you.
I don't think based on his flirting attempts that you can just assume that sex is the only thing he's after. I mean, he is a guy it's highly likely that he just wants to see you naked BUT he may genuinely like you. Flirt back with him and see if he asks you out. You'll have to get to know him better I come to a conclusion

[Jemini_Crocket]

From my experiences and from what I have seen and heard, he just wants to shag you.

It's hard to trust a guy. They want just sex and once they get it from you, they usually leave/later get bored of you. Especially in younger ages.

[AbleLearner]

He probably just got over whatever social anxiety disorder he suffers from, and realized he needs to make a move.

I foolishly spent nearly 2 years in some girl's "friend zone" trying to talk to her, and she didn't know I existed. So by the time I finally got over my anxiety hang-up regarding her and went for it, it was too late, she was starting to date this other guy, who she eventually married.

You may as well accept the fact that guys want to get laid. Just because a guy wants to get laid doesn't make him some kind of bad person, necessarily.

[OsSi3]

girls need to see every boy as different and not like they always want to get laid. 👌

[Losalt]

Yes, he's probably trying to get laid, and no that doesn't mean that he's not worth spending time with and getting to know.
It could develop in either direction.
Try it out, see where it goes from there.

[Anonymous]

I hope you didn't take the advice tellingyou to continueally reject him. This guy genuinely liked you. I am the same as him. I have been told so many times how good looking I am, yet I am 32 and all alone. Partially because I am afraid to ask out a lot of women because so many have rejected me. This guy sucked up all his confidence and tried to show you he wants to be with you probably after way too many rejections.

[OsSi3]

nope, he is not. I have a crush on a girl and did the same thing as your crush did. i was not trying to get laid, just wanted her to know i like her... i am shy, dont know how else i am gonna let her know. if you have a crush on him, just let him know what you up to and what you DONT want. (just a tip from a guy with a similair story)

[Samuel_Mendes]

I believe he just doesn't have the social skills yet to have a normal relationship with you. Give me time and refuse any offers till you get to know him better

[curiouswhitegrrrl]

Guys don't EVER really respect women. Yes he's just trying to fuck you

[Jemini_Crocket]

I agree so much. It's bad.

[DizzyAster]

Oh, he's like me. I do the same a lot with girls I like.
However, he is a man and his job is to get into those pants, and your job is to not let him... yet. :D

[DogEatsCat1973]

I am a shy guy too and personally I have fixated on a woman before and after sex to the point I want nothing but to be with her.

[Anonymous]

No way, he's probably just got a huge crush so he avoids you

[Kaylyne]

Yet another typical guy being led by his knob.

[Surgence]

Grab him by the balls and take control

[Surgence]

God dammit wrong question lol

[Surgence]

I'm so tired I need sleep

[Anonymous]

Well is there a photo

[emerald77]

Sounds like it.

[Nahid1234]

Going to say no.

[Anonymous]

nope