I'm I being petty if I expose my ex?

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I met my ex in a nightclub in London. He instantly swept me off my feet. He insisted on dancing with me and wouldn't let me get in my taxi till I gave him my number. He told me he was a actor but I didn't take it seriously as you hear stuff like that all the time in London.

We called me the next morning and asked me out for dinner at his place. He was really romantic and charming and we started dating from there.

I always believed he was a really sweet, kind man untill I started seeing red flags. One night he invited me out to meet his friends, they didn't even know we were a thing apparently they thought I was his cusion. He ignored me the whole night and didn't introduce me to any of his friends so I was sat by myself the whole night.

Then he vanished on me and I couldn't find him for the rest of the night so I decided at age 21 in London to walk to find a taxi by myself at midnight because that's safe isn't it.

He text me the next morning as if everything was okay and normal with us. I ended up ignoring it. I didn't talk to him for weeks after that. Then I pumped into one of his friends and she was telling how fun that night was and that this guy I was dating nearly got off with another girl at night and that's why he went missing. I was so hurt and angry. She said she didn't know we were dating back then and that she was sorry but she was the one to break it to me.

He eventually came to my flat with flowers and to apologize. I slammed the door in his face and told him to go away. But he didn't give up, he kept trying to contact me telling me this girl was lying and put she fancied him and that's why she said them things. I eventually came around and I forgave him. Long story short I dumped him at his mother birthday party after he got drunk and started to verbally abuse me in front of them and threw up everywhere.
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Now he's a star for hit show that I will not mention on here and loads of young impressionable girls like I was when I met him think he's wonderful and just like the character he plays which couldn't be further from the truth. Let just say for starters he has shit taste in music unlike his character lol. I've moved on now but he messed me up for a really long time and I know he hasn't changed and do what he did to me to another girl again
I'm I being petty if I expose my ex?
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