How many weeks after an break up you should wait?

[Anonymous]

Wait till it will be good again between your ex. How many weeks? After how many weeks u would give up and move forward?

[DaveJord]

Weeks? What are talking about after a break-up, I don't want more than hours or days. I don't break up or get dumped by someone and then think how long do I wait to get back with them. Nah, I got too much self respect, I move on immediately.

If they come back on want a second chance then I might consider it, but it had to be them that initiates that that not me. I mean if I broke up with her, then there was a reason and I acted on it and I would trust that instinct. If she came back and said sorry or wanted to give another go, I would consider it but I would set boundaries. But it she would have to ask me... I am not reaching out to her.

If she dumped me, then came back then again I would consider it but I would set boundaries. But she would have to contact me, I am not reaching out to her.

If we both agreed to break up, then again she would have to come to me asking... I would never reach out to her.

[DaveJord]

One other point, if you really want to be with this person then the sooner the better the longer you wait the more likely he is moving on. Just because I said someone like me might consider it, there would be a lot of factors involve if I would or not.

[mmaaaa]

as soon as you possibly can

[dudeinohio]

I move on immediately.

[Anonymous]

I say forget the ex completely.