My ex blamed me for our relationship problems, he prioritized his work over me and left me like I was nothing , quickly started date his friend. Why?

[Deimy]

What is the best way to heal?

Go to the therapy, try new things or try to date again?

[young_OG96]

I just more or less come out the other side of a break up, best thing to do is use the hurt and pain and put that into the gym, it’s not just about staying fit which is a huge benefit, but it keeps you busy and with gym you pick up other beneficial habits, dieting, getting enough sleep, staying hydrated etc, that’s my advice…. Also stay away from break up songs. Music has a powerful influence on the mind and how you behave

[Ill_made_Knight]

Someone familiar... known quantity.
Personally I've always taken time for self reflection... you know time towork on mebeforejumping right back in.

[Deimy]

What do you think about it?

[Ill_made_Knight]

dating his friend?

[Deimy]

Ye, you think he was cheating all this time?

[Ill_made_Knight]

It's possible I suppose... and I'm sure you're quite upset, confused about why, and probably are pretty sure you'll never have the answers you need.
That's why I say take a minute and settle yourself, unless of course you really think the "friend" is somebody you'd actually like to date... but that's my opinion, and to be fair I'm a bit of a plodder.

[Ill_made_Knight]

thanks for the MHO

[Wise4myage]

I bet he was seeing his "friend" long before he broke up with you.

[Deimy]

That hurts me a lot

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I'm sorry.

[Lenell]

Time and cuddling. Lots of cuddling.