How soon do you jump into another relationship after a breakup?

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AimeeKyle · Accepted Answer

It depends on if I run into anyone that interests me….. even though I wouldn’t be looking for one.

Part2603 · Accepted Answer

I can recover pretty quick, lol.

Paris13 · Answer

My Fiance and I took a Break and I Looked on my Dating Site I still Had from back When. No one was Appealing though. I still Love Him but Not sure what My Future Holds with Him. I posted a New Question in Regards to This, @pinay_ako lol!!! xxoo

Finchie40 · Answer

Not really a time limit and it depends on what occurred to cause the break up in the first place , everyone grieves in different ways , after my divorce and getting my heart shit on , I went through a don’t give a fuck about nothing attitude , I didn’t jump into relationships , but I didn’t say no to hooking up with Girls that just wanted to fuck mainly FWB’s that were in no rush to jump into another relationship, I was sleeping with married women that I didn’t know were married so that put a hold on me wanting another relationship as well , but once I snapped back out of my don’t give a fuck mood and reality kicked in again and I realized that all girl’s aren’t selfish but sadly Most of them are. I started seeking a real connection again and trying to play my cards right this time around , so for me to get into a serious committed relationship again , sadly she has to prove to me that she isn’t selfish and that she knows what it means to be in a relationship, sadly that’s been hard to find these days , Crazy thing is I know people that got divorced and still grieving 5 or more years later and haven’t met anyone else since then , I say Fuck That!!! Lol , I love sex to much to not want it , so I just go with the flow and live my life best I can , I want to be wanted the same way I make her feel wanted because I realize I don’t need anyone , I am perfectly capable of supporting myself , I would like to find a girl that wants to be by my side and be my team partner , Her and I Vs the world, but until that happens I am just living my life and Giving what I want to receive , we can’t read peoples minds, all we can do is try , it’s better to try then not try at all , if I have sex with a girl I want to continue having sex with just her , if she chooses to walk away then that’s out of my hands , I can only try to have her stand by my side

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Probably the soonest was a single day. Lo and behold, the previous gal was on her way out anyway. Hot and cold. Exposed cheater. Not one redeeming quality. Lied about almost everything. The new girl came on as a confidant who had my back, and got me roped in. First, as a friend, then, as a romantic interest.

But she as just as terrible a scammer as the previous girl. She played a slightly different game; but was ultimately just as cruel and deceitful, and flaky.

In summary, the year 2014 was a big episode of: "Thanks for saving me- wait, what... what are you doing? Oh, hell no!"

Cecinene · Answer

Of course you are not lying.

But if I will say that I can't jump into a relationship that was just broken.

Actually I'm not the type of person that takes over other people's boyfriend when they are still in the relationship, even if you actually love me I will not accept it because you already have someone by your side.

It is useless being a side chick to a guy who has a girlfriend.

Alex8736 · Answer

If I'm in a long term relationship I am loyal to the end and for whatever reason either a difference of opinion etc and a break up occurs I'll stay single for a minimum of 6 months or more to focus on resetting myself and focus on moving forward with my life and my ultimate goal. If it's just simple dating and a red flag pop's up I'll give the benefit of the doubt but when I start detecting a shady pattern I will be honest and let them know it's not working out and continue with new and interesting prospects. Just saying

God_of_Thunder · Answer

When I'm in a relationship, I'm committed. I have no interest in anyone else.

So, when/if the relationship ends, I need some time before I'm ready to commit to someone else. I can't put a limit on it, but I'm not ready for another relationship right away.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Most of my relationships have had a year gap between. But I don't think this quote is necessarily true. A lot of the time relationships are over before they actually end officially.

Sandeeppingping · Answer

You just gave me an idea, we broke up like 2 weeks ago, well she broke up with me because she thought I cheated, I think now I should just hangout with all the chicks she's accused me of hanging out with am I right? Prove her right once and for all

LilyFlorisa · Answer

If true love was happened by both sides and breakup for a reason, no jump into others. If true love happen, but this true love is only by one side, the left one may be jump into other. The second case may take a time for the left one when he or she finds a person who is better than the first one.

petitedollbabee · Answer

When I meet the right person and have fully recovered from my previous relationship. Depending on the previous relationship and how long it lasted/how committed it was, depends on how quickly I get over it. The longest I’ve stayed single is 18 months.

Nikki1989 · Answer

The longest for me was 2 months. The shortest was more or less the same day.

PinkMichae · Answer

Well my ex that cheated I guess did start dating right away. I took 6 months to build myself up again before I was ready to date. Still I don't think it's true in all cases that cheaters always move on before non-cheaters.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont jump. I just dont let a good offer pass me by

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

It’s takes me a few months to go completely washed of previous emotions for the other person. But if the person is really fantastic and is interested in me, I wouldn’t let that opportunity slip by

Twalli · Answer

Well considering that my crush is in a relationship, I would probably reactivate my dating app while checking to see if she ever breaks up.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I make sure I'm good and healed before dating again. I need a few months to a year.

bigpauly · Answer

It depends how serious it was. Sometimes it takes me months. Other times I’m right back on the market lol

Bexxiib · Answer

Between my first and my second it was  2 years I broke up with my second 6 years ago. I’m not that desperate 🙄

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'll be honest in my last 2 breakups before this I was dating someone new within a few days. But this one it's been over 2 months and I haven't downloaded any apps.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

Considering how things goes, I have a feeling I would recover within a month. If it took me any more time, I'd be surprised.

tony_baloney · Answer

Dating I might do within a couple weeks. Maybe a month. Anything serious would definitely be a while though

SnowedIn · Answer

Pretty fast. Like, breathe deep and take a breather but not mourning and grief and wallowing in pity.

MrTaboo · Answer

Depends on the breakup. 10 years after my wife died.

WeirdoFriendly · Answer

In my opinion, usually the cheater stays out of another relationship for a while and the loyal guy hops into another relationship because he wants love that'll last. Not just a few months of fun and saying I love you.

sicosico · Answer

Best way to get over a man is to get under another

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Well, I usually try to take a shower first. So not immediately.

xJeremyx · Answer

I broke up with my ex in Jan 2017. Still single. Because 1. ain't nobody want me 🤣 and 2. enjoying single life.

dustybiker · Answer

I always followed my gut. I never dated to date.

RavVid · Answer

Usually the cheater has been looking for an upgrade for quite some time; quite possibly from the begining. For me it takes some time.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't just jump back into another relationship I take time to heal and just time for myself for myself to get myself right mentally

Havthrills · Answer

I went a week after one. 5 months after another. Two years after another. The one that was one week, she was a cheater. She proved it later too.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

can't put a time unit but usely 90 day if a bad break up so I dont bring excess emotionak baggage to a new relationship got to let it go before a new relationship

PamelaRivers · Answer

It depends on how long it will take to find someone new.

Aerolyn · Answer

It seems that it takes at least a year for me to feel ready to be in a new one, based on my past.

mobiusforniner · Answer

By that definition, most everyone are cheaters...

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Everyone is different. This caption is just ridiculous and had to be made by someone who couldn't move on in time

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

The cheater is still single even though he switched to men.  I waited 6 months before dating again.  Ex threatened to murder me for it. Lmao

jamesgoldman · Answer

Had 2 relationships The gap between the was a few months but now we're up to 8 years of solitary existence

Waldoe · Answer

not true... by the time the "Break" comes both are "done"... no reason to be 'faithful' to someone you will never be with again...

exitseven · Answer

If I could find somebody to go out with the next day I would go for it.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

With some people I knew in college, it was 24 to 48 hours.

d3n0939 · Answer

True. At least it takes 6 months to recover, if you were true with your SO.

Jerre · Answer

I never consider myself in a relationship with a woman, so no problem there. Just dat whoever is available

Zolly99999 · Answer

Depends on the situation.. if it was a short term relationship then moving on would be sooner then a long term relationship.

Reddy4it · Answer

I dunno…been a while between my last relationship and this one

dudeinohio · Answer

As soon as possible. I've had a first date a week after a breakup.

Sparkie460 · Answer

It depends on how long the Last relationship lasted.

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t it took me three years to get over my former girlfriend

Hardworkingguy · Answer

In my case it took me years to try a relationship again

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not long. If I like her and she likes me I'm gone that quick. 😁

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... I don't jump around

BLP11520 · Answer

That's a very tough question, I guess it depends on the maturity of both people

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I take these things pretty seriously so I’d definitely need some time

Guardian45 · Answer

Longest was 10 years.

melanieeeB · Answer

The last and only time was 3 years haha

sheikalana · Answer

I give it at least six months to one year.

Jennz6 · Answer

True, I wouldn’t ever get married again 💃

Ironic_Method · Answer

Pretty quickly. I don't need time to recover.

Fuentes · Answer

I don't I chase money

jimmy2 · Answer

Not sure one can count that

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