Husband is divorcing me and I feel like it’s my fault. I’m always yelling. And making accusations. I’m going crazy and feelings like I am the compete blame. I’m almost 7 weeks pregnant and he has ZERO desire to work it out. I already have a 1 year old. I have a good job, no family living near me through. Should I keep this baby or abort? I don’t know what to do
Please don't take this unkindly, but there's no way to say this otherwise: "Are you fucking kidding me?" No, that's not a judgement as to say there's an obviously correct answer, though I'm sure many people will say there is ONLY one correct answer. They will say "you don't kill a baby because you're getting a divorce", and so on. I'm not going there.
Where I'm going is - how can you SERIOUSLY ask this question on GAG, assuming this isn't a troll, in order to get advice? Are you seriously going to entertain what strangers tell you about something this life changing and important? All you're going to get here is pro's and con's abortion arguments, religious views and the opinions of people who can't imagine your situation.
You say you don't know what to do? WHY don't you? You have 3 options: 1) Terminate the pregnancy 2) Carry it to term and put it up for adoption 3) Carry it to term and raise the child. Which of those can you live with for the rest of your life? That's what you do, and if you don't "know", you take your best shot because that's ALL you can ever do!
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Babies are a gift from the Lord. If you don't want the baby you can give it away to be adopted just don't take away it's life
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