Why would dumper delete their instagram and facebook months after breakup?

[Anonymous]

Is it because dumper’s remorse has set in now?

[AmandaYVR]

Why do so many pinks ask these questions around the idea that their ex regretted the decision? It seems women don't move on as much as men do.

People get fed up with social media. Sometimes they stop using it for a while; sometimes they close their accounts permanently. Not everything is about their ex.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Could be so they don't want to see your updates. Doesn't mean it's because they regret breaking up. Could be because they want to remove the impulse to check.

[Asker]

I deleted him from my followers the day he dumped me

[boggboss]

Why do u think its connected to the old relationship and bot somthing in his life

[Asker]

He’s usually done it in the past of he’s been depressed (twice). Even then only for couple of hours

[boggboss]

But again why would u assume its to do with the relationship it could be anything in his life

[Asker]

I just have a strong feeling that he’s depressed

[boggboss]

Its possible but that dont mean its because of the relationship

[Asker]

You’re right

[Asker]

by the way My dumper deactivated his instagram the next day when I made my page public for one day after 2 months of being private…

[boggboss]

OK then so

[Asker]

What? So u think it’s something to do with me going public?

[boggboss]

No I don't think it has anything to do with u

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it because dumper has a new girlfriend now?

[Asker]

Why would he delete accounts just because he hasa girlfriend?

[Asker]

Has* . Also we weren’t even following each other when he deleted his accounts

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he was paranoid about her seeing old comments he may have posted.

[Asker]

Even on instagram?

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't use IG so I don't know about that platform.

[Asker]

Now he’s using whatsapp more (he’s more online) and that was our main platform that we chatted on.

[qwert1234]

Maybe they blocked you and set the profile to private?

[Asker]

I checked with my burner account. He’s really deleted his accounts

[qwert1234]

I believe setting an account to private makes it "invisible" to non-friends. Maybe I am wrong.
It's also possible the person changed name and email, like a do-over.

As for reasons, to be honest, it's very unlikely a dumper's remorse. Usually, people who initiate the dump has thought about it for weeks, even months. I doubt it's remorse.

You don't harass this person, do you? Because if you keep messaging, that may be another reason.

[Asker]

You can’t make instagram and facebook page invicible to others

[qwert1234]

Yes, you can. You can limit the visibility to just Friends on FB, and on IG I think you can set it private.

[Asker]

My friend who’s also on his friends list can’t see his page anymore

[qwert1234]

Ok. then maybe he/she deleted it. Again, chances of being a dumper's remorse being the reason, is very slim to none.

[Asker]

My dumper deactivated his instagram the next day when I made my page public for one day after 2 months of being private…

[qwert1234]

I do not see a correlation, sorry.

But it does not matter what the reason is, actually. The person dumped you. You may be hurt, in pain, sad, angry and so on.
But the thing is, you keep moving forward. You don't look back, just remember all the lessons life has taught you up to this point.

[Asker]

He’s often online on whatsapp. It was our main app that we chatted on before we stopped talking lol

[Wise4myage]

Maybe they got burned out on social media?

[Asker]

What do u mean by ”burned out” ? Get tired of social media? He’s been years on social media. Why would he suddenly get tried of it?

[Wise4myage]

Burned out means he got fed up with something for some reason.