Girl broke up for space i’m pretty sure but acts like she’s mad?

[mason1s]

Me an my ex got into a small argument cuz we broke up for a bit and she went and did some stuff with someone else even though it was to get over me. First break up was happy and i was always understanding and had actually never been mad at her ever. We broke up the first time so she could work on herself. I think she may just be confused because she suffers from severe depression. We broke up this time but she just kept saying she didn’t care about anything anymore. I went there the same night cuz she packed all my things but i really came to just talk 😂 didn’t even take it. She listened to what i had to say which was all heartfelt trying to make her feel worth it type of stuff, but she just kept telling me to leave in response and she said she doesn’t want anything to do with me. I said if thats so true then why aren’t i blocked and she blocked me after that obviously regret sayin that. Then I held her and told her she’s gonna figure it out, the world is a fucked up place and that i love her. She started crying so i just said i’m sorry and i left without a goodbye from her. I woke up to some messages just saying she just can’t handle that it’s so one sided on my end and she doesn’t deserve me.

[Flower7]

Once a person starts breaking up with you, it’s best to move on and not keep going back to them.

[SnowedIn]

What is your question?

[mason1s]

I don't know more so just wanting advice

[SnowedIn]

Ah, okay. First, actually, I agree with @Flower7 . The on again/off again thing is immature. Either be together or don't -- if there are problems, then mature couples in relationships communicate and work them out.

My advice would be for you both to decide whether the attraction you have for each other and whatever it was that got you together in the first place is important to you. Do you both still like each other. If the answer is yes, then all the rest doesn't matter -- it's stuff to work through and communicate through. I'm not saying to hide the fact that she's got drama and her depression and you prob have issues to. But mature relationships work through those things, not break up over them.