Why would my ex fling (dated 5 months no title) who acted like a boyfriend, introduce me to his brother, his good friends, reappear and then disappear every few weeks after i applied the no contact rule for 2 months? He’s so confusing because he insists on saying “he just wants to have fun and be single” but I feel like he can’t let me go for some odd reason. I got annoyed by his avoidant tendencies and deleted him from Facebook as I’ve been trying to move on, but now he’s texting me via Facebook messenger or WhatsApp every other week with small talk. He remembers important bits of information i tell him, which is kind of odd considering he’s a pothead and couldn’t even remember his own mom’s birthday!! 🤦♀️ He’s almost 40 years old and acts like he’s 20! Help I don’t know what to do with this guy. I do have feelings for him and we get along great… no fighting ever. Not sure what to say or do to communicate how I’m feeling or how to proceed with him. Should i block, communicate this to him, or give up?
We dated for 5 months (may-oct), no contact rule applied nov-dec, small talk every week/every other week since initiated by him.
