How come I’ve only ever cried after a breakup from only one of my ex’s?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had like five or six boyfriends, two of whom which were long term. And the one that I broke up with that I cried over I wasn’t with nearly as long as two others, yet he is the only one who I longed for and deeply missed. Why is this?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know for sure why you may have felt more emotional after breaking up with one particular ex compared to others. However, it's possible that your feelings were influenced by a variety of factors such as the depth of your emotional connection with that person, the circumstances surrounding the breakup, and your own personal experiences and emotions at the time.

Emotional attachment and the grieving process can be complex and varied, and it's not uncommon to feel strong emotions after a breakup with one person but not another. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health during this time, and to take the time you need to process your emotions and move forward in a healthy way.

If you're struggling to process your emotions or move on from a past relationship, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor for support and guidance. They can provide tools and strategies to help you cope with your emotions and move forward in a healthy way.

[Notsoshyguy1985]

Maybe 🤔 you where dehydrated for the others

[Asker]

No, I wasn’t

[Notsoshyguy1985]

Okay then
You cold as ice then