Is it bad I’m scared to talk to my girlfriend about the other post before/ my issue?

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I just don’t want to get heart broken again so I’m scared to but she needs to know but I don’t want to tell her and possibly get my heart broken for the 3rd time the first time I got really possessive and tried to make him cheat on his new girl the second time I couldn’t get over her and cried every night and sometimes it got hard to breath and had to get help to calm down… and I don’t want either to happen again…

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Throughout life you’ll have many relationships and have many heartbreaks. But you always have to express your feelings no matter the consequences. It’s part of life and part of relationships in general. Learning the balance between telling her your feelings too much and seeming needed and being closed off by not sharing at all can see cold can be difficult but is necessary to make a relationship work. The best advice I can give you is to express your feeling as much as she does and as much as you’re comfortable with sharing.
Don’t worry about getting your heart broken because it will be. It’s a part of the human experience. What’s more important is how you deal with it. Can you deal with it in a healthy way or will it be a destructive way that will get you into more trouble? My best advice is to accept things. If you love them and want them to be happy then let them go. Letting them go and letting them find their happiness is making them happy. I’m sure you’d rather be the reason they found happiness than the reason they are sad. 💕

[NogginHappy009]

You greatly care for this person I sense. In order to piece the puzzle together why not talk to her gently. Say, I’ve been feeling afraid. She will know but also be prepared if she feels the same way.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I don’t want her to worry about me…

[NogginHappy009]

I know.

[NogginHappy009]

One of these days you won’t be able to hide your feelings for her. You do love her, right?

[NogginHappy009]

You’re nervous, very much.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I do love her and I don't know how much longer I can fake a smile so she’s not worried about me

[NogginHappy009]

Does your girlfriend go to school?

[NogginHappy009]

At this time, please take care of yourself. No more pressure for the both. New changes are to be expected soon

[Ur1local2bisexual]

Pm me

[SnowedIn]

It's normal and not bad to be scared. But it is bad to not communicate -- especially from fear.

You're aware of possessiveness so that's how you fight it.

But talk to her. Non-judgmental and not accusatory. Focus on how the actions make you feel and is there a problem.

[Anonymous]

Always advocate for your emotional needs, otherwise why be in that relationship?

[Ur1local2bisexual]

Attached….

[Anonymous]

Heartbreak is the reality of dating. Fear is a healthy emotion; but we need to be able to move inspite of them.