Based on your description, it sounds like your boyfriend may want to break up with you but is struggling with how to do it. He may be feeling trapped or controlled by your requests to check in frequently and share his location, and may be feeling pressured into taking a break instead of ending the relationship altogether. Additionally, the issues that have arisen due to his behavior with his friends may be causing strain on the relationship as well.
It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns, but it's also important to respect their boundaries and give them space if they need it. It may be helpful to take some time for self-reflection as well and think about what you want and need in a relationship, and whether this relationship is meeting those needs.
Ultimately, the decision to break up or stay together is up to both of you, and it's important to make a decision that feels right for both of you. If you do decide to stay together, it may be helpful to work on building trust and communication in the relationship, and to address any underlying issues that may be causing tension or conflict.
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Well, unfortunately, this is not going to work out- you can't save the relationship with fundamental differences like that.
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This is a terrible situation, you are putting as much effort as you can to keep your relationship alive and he is being stupid, do yourself a favor and let go, let him go, he's deadweight, do the final breakup and leave him, find someone better.
Every 45 minutes? Get a grip. That's completely unreasonable. If I were him I would have dropped you long ago. Why don't you date someone local?
He wants to break up. I was able to figure that out because that is what he said!
Long distance hardly ever works
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