Is this going nowhere?

[__xxksxx__]

It’s a follow up question. Is there anyway I can change my boyfriend’s mind or is this going nowhere no matter how hard I try to work on myself? I’m even seeing therapist just to be better and be ready to get back into the relationship again.

[ManOnFire]

So I read all the details to your first one "What does he want?" It's great that you're seeing a therapist because you do have some growing you need to do, and I think maybe you reacted a little to strongly and controlling about his whereabouts. However, he was wrong to block you everywhere, especially if he's supposed to be your boyfriend.

I think that relationship is going nowhere healthy, yeah. You both need work, but you also don't need to be with someone who's going to cause you confusion, stress, and wonder. You need to walk away from that.