I met this guy online and we get along decent. He never initiated getting my number but he was very interested in getting to know me. I asked for his number and we’ve been textingbfrom the morning til night every day. It's almost been a month and he's never asked to meet up in person. He's flirty sometimes but I'm wondering if this is just going to remain casual or will actually go somewhere and he's just shy. He goes to an all boys school so I'm wondering if he just doesn't know how to interact with women.
I don't think so it is going to be casual for him. Let me tell you a small story from my side too😅. I am too a shy person and just like the way you explained about the guy you met. Although I didn't went to all boys school still had very few female interactions. Later I had a girl best friend who initiated with being friends with me, she took my number (with only intention of being friends at that time) later after a year or so she showed interest in me when we started dating ans then I proposed her and we are a together since then. This relationship shaped me a lot later. Now I have gained some confidence and can directly approach others make friends. So him being shy though he might be interested in you he is just afraid to ask you for your number or meeting in person. And this already looks a sign that he is interested in you because you are saying that you both a texting all day from morning to night for a month. If he wasn't interested he won't waste his time too. And being in a all boys, he barely must have had any interactions with females and hence doesn't know how to approach you or will it be right time to ask your number or out on a date. But I don't personally think that it will stay casual from his side by trying to understand your situation from the context you gave. I guess till he becomes more comfortable with you, you have to put more efforts and try to make a move in every aspect till he gets comfortable with asking your directly from front and this won't take much time. So if you are interested in him just try to make the first move.
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If you have not met in person to touch one another then it seems like this communication is of convenience. I would not describe it as a relationship or crush. I do not think he is serious or he would have moved on it quickly. When we see something we like, we act. Otherwise, we are filling empty spaces of time.
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Tell him you are bored and wanna go to the movies or something and ask him what are his plans for that day
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