Why people dont realized what they habe until its too late?

[Alwayreckles93]

Now my ex- husband wants me back but it isnway to late. Why be with someoneyou no longer love. My feeings had faded away with his actions. Now that he sen i had move on in life. Why now he wants me back. Now my ex-husbad regretsbhis choices that he made by telling me hewants me back and how his current partner treats him horribly. But i was honest with my ex. I told him I no longer love him ad how al those feelings were faded away. Hetells me he missed the fresh cook meals , a clean spotless house and my presence and how he never realizedtbis up until now. Why people open theirneyes unil its too late?

[YourMamma]

Wow what a loser you have happily got away from!! Some men do realise they have made a massive mistake once they’ve moved out etc but to try and come back and actually tell you they miss your cooking and cleaning etc? That’s just damned insulting! How about grovelling and begging for forgiveness because he realises just how much he misses you and loves you and he just can’t go on without at least trying to win you back? He should be trying to show how much he loves and regrets his mistakes not saying the crap he has been!! I’m sorry this has happened to you but at least you are away from it now. Maybe give the other woman a heads up if you think she’s a fairly decent woman? If not then just forget about him and move on with your much improved life!!

[TrueConfection]

Tell him to hire a cook and a maid. He's going to cheat on his new wife just like he cheated on you. He's scum and he needs his mommy to tell him he's really a good boy.

[Exterminatore]

Very likely. He cheated on her to be with that other woman. I’m almost positive the other woman doesn’t know he’s trying to get her back, thus betraying her as well. It doesn’t seem this guy can be trusted at all.

[TrueConfection]

@Exterminatore He did. He left her and their children for this woman. Now he wants to change his mind.

[Exterminatore]

Sometimes people have an epiphany, but I don’t think that’s the case here. I think more than likely there’s a completely self serving motive behind this for him, and certainly not a wake up call or pang of conscious.

[TrueConfection]

@Exterminatore I agree. He's a total diet bag. His new wife even had the audacity to ask Akwaysreckles for advice on dealing with his tantrums.

[TrueConfection]

*dirt bag

[Exterminatore]

Amazing! That is some audacity.

[TrueConfection]

Thank you for the MHO ❤

[teamvic]

Because over time you get use to having something or getting something you grow to not appreciate it as much until it's gone. Kinda like how at the beginning of a relationship you're so happy with the other person and all you think about them but over time, yeah you may still like it but you've grown accustomed to it. That's why people say the "honey moon" phase ends. It's also why some people fall out of love with their significant other. Because they're use to getting treated someway that they loved and when slowly over time they stop getting treated that way and then they start feeling under appreciated and then now they've lost feelings or could even result in overthinking

[Exterminatore]

Wow! That’s amazing. I don’t think you should even consider ever taking him back. I’d seriously question his motives for saying a lot of this.


God knows just how to punish the wicked on this earth and in the next life. We reap what we sew.

[Alwayreckles93]

No Sir , I don't plan on taking him back. I mean care about him as a person but not in a romantic way.

[Alwayreckles93]

I didn't want to makenthisnhuge but everything my friend hammer time told you is true. My feelings for my ex had fedad way.

[Exterminatore]

Good for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

The grass in the other pasture always looks greener! That is human nature.

[Anonymous]

It's common for people to take things for granted or not fully appreciate what they have until it's gone. Sometimes it takes losing something or someone to realize its value.

In your case, it sounds like your ex-husband may have taken your relationship for granted and didn't fully appreciate all that you brought to the relationship until after it was over. However, it's important to remember that you have moved on and that your feelings for him have faded away. It's understandable that you may feel frustrated or hurt that he wants you back now that you have moved on, but it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to make decisions that are in your best interests.

It's important to communicate your honest feelings with your ex-husband and to set boundaries that are comfortable for you. Remember, you have the right to make decisions that are in your best interests, and it's okay to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

[ManOnFire]

Very glad for you, bravo! He wants you back after seeing that no one else loves him, his new woman included. People who messed up in a relationship almost always realize what they had long after the fact. What they call lover's remorse.

Thank you for being one of the few people out there who moved on and made it clear that you don't want him back. You are strong and will be a great wife for another man who will appreciate it.

[Staximus]

Because you don't miss your water until the well runs dry. He didn't value and appreciate you until he found out the hard way that the grass isn't greener on the other side if the hill.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Why did he destroy his family for what? Some people are never satisfied until it's gone.

[zagor]

So he missed your cooking and cleaning. You're better off without him.

[Alex8736]

people don't appreciate what they have till it's gone and the grass isn't always greener in the yard next door

[Ben487]

Some people learn the hard way I guess

[Mansearching]

Hind sight is always 20/20.

[Anonymous]

do you change baby diaper?