Interesting story, need an advice?

[Anonymous]

I live in North America and I came to Europe to visit a few countries, one of which my ex lives. I met him online which had later developed into a long distance relationship. I moved to a country in Europe for my university studies. We met in real life in Eurasia and also in the country I used to study. We dated for about a year and a half and we did end our relationship on bad terms. I stopped dating with him to concentrate myself on my studies, and later I found out that he didn’t want to continue dating either. Once we broke up, we started fighting each other over texts. Now, I’m staying for 10 days in a European country that is close to the country I used to live in for my university studies. Hotels cost a lot here, so I found a home in which I could stay that costs less than staying at hostels or at hotels. It’s not in the city centre, in fact it’s in another city, where he also lives. There wasn’t anyone else who allowed me to stay at their house for 10 days. I was lucky to find someone to stay here. He lives so close to the place I stay at. And, I wonder if it’s fine for us to meet up somewhere in the city, although we blocked each other a long time ago. We broke up last year during spring and we haven’t talk since last summer. I’d be pleased if anyone could give me an advice. I don’t live in the country I used to live in for my studies anymore, I moved back to North America last year. Thanks in advance!

[abc3643]

Keep in mind that there is a good chance that he has a new girlfriend or even wife.
You don't want drama.
You don't need drama.
If the breakup was "bad", you wouldn't even really consider this.

HOWEVER, if you are considering it, then you need to reach out in some way. Believe it or not, there's this thing called "mail" - real mail - letters, envelopes, postage, etc - which doesn't get "blocked". So, if you do have his current address, you can mail him. Or, perhaps just mention to a mutual friend that you want to get in contact with Mr. Ex.

[Asker]

He is 19 years old, so he is not married yet. And, he currently doesn’t have a girlfriend.

[Asker]

All the relationships he had after we broke up didn’t last as long as ours.

[abc3643]

How do you KNOW he "currently doesn't have a girlfriend"? This implies that you are not really blocked or that you are soliciting information about his current status from someone you both know but are not blocked by.

[Asker]

There is a social media account where I’m not blocked

[abc3643]

OK, look, the person you are playing games with is yourself, thus this very question.

Ask yourself this:
Q: Is it conceivable that I would ever want to have a relationship with Mr. Ex again?

If the answer is "No", then you are wasting everyone's time, most of all, yours.
If the answer is "Yes", then, if you want, reach out to him. This is apparently what your heart is telling you to do since you've asked this question.

[Asker]

Since our breakup, I see him in my dreams, even when I don’t think about him…

[abc3643]

It happens to me too and she dumped me 31.5 years ago. Get over it.

[Avicenna]

What I didn't hear from you is why you would actually want to see him again other than temporary proximity and what you'd get out of it.

[normandi]

Honestly your story is hosh bosh can't be understood

[Anonymous]

Stop playing games and just move on. 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

I’m not playing any games

[In_Trance]

Move on