I live in North America and I came to Europe to visit a few countries, one of which my ex lives. I met him online which had later developed into a long distance relationship. I moved to a country in Europe for my university studies. We met in real life in Eurasia and also in the country I used to study. We dated for about a year and a half and we did end our relationship on bad terms. I stopped dating with him to concentrate myself on my studies, and later I found out that he didn’t want to continue dating either. Once we broke up, we started fighting each other over texts. Now, I’m staying for 10 days in a European country that is close to the country I used to live in for my university studies. Hotels cost a lot here, so I found a home in which I could stay that costs less than staying at hostels or at hotels. It’s not in the city centre, in fact it’s in another city, where he also lives. There wasn’t anyone else who allowed me to stay at their house for 10 days. I was lucky to find someone to stay here. He lives so close to the place I stay at. And, I wonder if it’s fine for us to meet up somewhere in the city, although we blocked each other a long time ago. We broke up last year during spring and we haven’t talk since last summer. I’d be pleased if anyone could give me an advice. I don’t live in the country I used to live in for my studies anymore, I moved back to North America last year. Thanks in advance!
Keep in mind that there is a good chance that he has a new girlfriend or even wife.
You don't want drama.
You don't need drama.
If the breakup was "bad", you wouldn't even really consider this.
HOWEVER, if you are considering it, then you need to reach out in some way. Believe it or not, there's this thing called "mail" - real mail - letters, envelopes, postage, etc - which doesn't get "blocked". So, if you do have his current address, you can mail him. Or, perhaps just mention to a mutual friend that you want to get in contact with Mr. Ex.
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What I didn't hear from you is why you would actually want to see him again other than temporary proximity and what you'd get out of it.
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Honestly your story is hosh bosh can't be understood
Stop playing games and just move on. 🤦♀️
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