My man you need to put an end to that shit , Girls that hold onto their exes at arms length are clearly holding on to something that is no longer there , just because they have a child together doesn’t give her a right to stay in contact consistently with him , if she valued you and respected you , her ex would barely be in the picture at all , because how would she feel if you had a child with another girl and you kept her at arms length? When a girl can’t wear your shoes like she expects you to wear hers it’s time to kick that bitch to the curb where she belongs, if shit doesn’t change , I was in a relationship with a girl that was divorced and already had a child , Her ex would call her and talk to her like they were still married and treated her like he still had this control over her because they had split custody of their daughter, I could hear the way he would Talk to her on the phone like he still had this control over her and that she had to do what he said , I grabbed the phone out of her hand and told him he needs to back the fuck off and get a grip I understand you have a child with her but you have no right talking to her the way you are talking to her , if I hear you talking to her again this way, be prepared to start talking to me He shit his pants cuz he knew I wasn’t fucking around and he apologized , when I hung up the phone I told her if she wants to continue this relationship with me , she is no longer going to keep him at arms length , Girls’ are very vulnerable when it comes to exes , for some reason girls tend to hold on to their exes more than guys do , if you really like this girl and want her to be by your side you are going to have to put your foot down to her and tell her that you will not tolerate her keeping her ex at arms length , tell her it’s disrespectful and that it makes you feel that she truly doesn’t value you , if she loves and values you she will distance herself from her ex , if she doesn’t then kick her to the curb where she belongs period. More than likely by putting your foot down to her is going to turn her on , Most girls love when their man takes lead, it makes her feel safe and protected , if she feels safe and protected by you , she will be on her knees worshipping you , if she doesn’t man , then you have to kick her to the curb where she belongs , The only way love grows in a relationship is when both partners’ prioritize and value and respect each other , A girl needs to feel safe and protected by her man to be able to value him , Most girls are drawn to masculine energy that she doesn’t possess , by you putting your foot down and taking lead she will more than likely look up to you , if she doesn’t she isn’t the girl for you period
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Lol your her toy to make him jealous!
It is her game your a pond of course your ignored when he is over! She caress less about you!
Probably wants to be taken given another daughter by him!
Talk with her see why
It might be time for you to move on from this.
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