Why is she she jealous I’m dating a better woman?

[Anonymous]

She’s genuinely a wonderful person, she’s very well to do let’s say, and a lot more beautiful then my ex. My ex is harassing me she feels entitled to know everything going on. She wanted to give me another chance. I told her I was seeing someone and she left me along until I made it official with this new girl. She’s going ape she. She dumped me. She didn’t want me anymore. I figured she moved on and so did I. She’s psychotic. I’m glad she’s gone.

[Finchie40]

Because deep down inside she wanted to be that better woman for you , but she didn’t know how to express it to you the way you wanted her too , whether she was toxic , manipulative , controlling to you she wanted you to choose her , over you replacing her. What most of us guys don’t realize about girls is most girls express their emotions easierthan a guy does , For most guys to feel loved and valued we want a girl that makes us feel valued and appreciated and wanted , a girl that doesn’t withhold intimacy and affection from us that stands by our side and respects us , Most girls don’t grasp that intimacy and affection is important to most of us men when she starts to with hold intimacy and affection she doesn’t realize she is being selfish to her man , making us feel that she doesn’t love or value us making us feel she i is a selfish girl that only cares about herself. Selfishness is one of the biggest relationship killers , if you can’t choose your partner the same way they choose you it will not work. So by you choosing another girl made her feel that she isn’t good enough for you. By you allowing her to continue talking to you is giving her time to attack you , you are best to block her and move on and do not talk to her , she will eventually get the hint that you are no longer investing your time into her , An ex is an ex for a reason , exempt them from your life period especially if you are investing your time into someone else, showing respect to your new partner.

[Asker]

Haha. She wanted to be better. She wanted me to be better. Wanted me to do this and that. Give her my attention. But gave little in return.

[Asker]

And the 10 percent she did give. She talked how ingresffuo I was when I have her 100 and she was never happy. So

[Finchie40]

Ok it sounds like you were with a gold digger , your best bet is to exempt her for your life , Anne loves you but on a fucked up way

[Asker]

Not a gold digger. Lol.

[Asker]

If anything she was. She was wanting to be a housewife. So… 🤷‍♂️. I’m not gonna turn a girl down because she has more money either

[Finchie40]

Sadly most girls’ want to be housewife’s and not work a job period and to have access to her man’s bank account so she can do what she wants , but to know
For sure if she is going To stick with doing the house chores while you are at work and stay loving and loyal to you , is a shot in the dark, Most girls will do it temporarily and then get bored feeling like she is this slave at home while you are out busting your ass to provide , if money starts to get tight she will automatically blame you and act like you aren’t a good man cuz money got tight , never pointing fingers at herself for her spending habits , Most girls feel they were put on Earth to be taken care of financially , why most girls’ will latch on to a guy that she feels will provide for her and take care of her , I no longer date girls’ that have no work ambition what so ever , if she isn’t going to be my team partner she isn’t the girl for me period. I want a girl that wants to work with me not against me , when I meet a girl like that, that’s the best girl to go for because she is in it to be a partner not a mooch , because you both work as a team , I have witnessed so many housewives that don’t have paying jobs cheating on their husbands while he is at work slaving away , sitting at home doing nothing other than talking to her girlfriends or secret lover over the phone while her husband is out slaving away. I am not saying all girls do this but a majority of them do these days , Selfish women period that only truly care about themselves , they do not know how to be a team partner , just a user

[coachTanthony]

Her ego wants you to want her back and to feel miserable about her dumping you. So when you are doing good and seeing someone new her ego can't stand it. She gets off on the pain she gives out and when there is no pain registering then she goes bezerk. Be happy you are no longer with her because she is headed to a mental institution if this behavior continues.

[Beautyblossom2]

Are you sure she's jealous (i know guys have a tendency to assume this when they see girls as "trophies")? I mean how was she to the other girl? Does she genuinely consider her as better than her? Girls don't usually go doing "entitled harassment" unless they have some good reasoning behind it. What's her reasoning exactly?

Are you giving us the full story or just some version so that you look better? Your question shouldn't be answered without hearing her side of it. Rest, obviously you should enjoy the peace if she's gone instead of asking this.

[Beautyblossom2]

I'd say she earlier had good feelings for you. That's why she was hurt because you didn't reciprocate, or because you did something to cause them. And since those feelings are gone now, she released all that "psychotic" on you. Lastly, since she doesn't care for you anymore, she left. If it's good riddance, why are you asking this? People's emotions are justified according to themselves.. she's not wrong acc. to herself just like how you're not wrong for going for a "better" girl. Maybe she'll also find a "better" guy acc to herself. She closed the chapter, you should too and just move on

[Asker]

She doesn’t like her. I don’t think it’s good if they met. She’s saying stuff like “how could you do this and move on so fast” when she dumped me and was seeing other guys. She’s a IDIOT

[Asker]

I don’t assume people are jealous. I don’t really care. Because once I move on I don’t think about them much. Unless they harsss me. I was sad for a while like any other person. But she just needs to move on

[Asker]

She dumped me. lol. Then posted all over photos of other guys. Now she wonders how I could move on. LMFAO 🤣. She’s looney.

[DextroShade]

Funny how you automatically make all these excuses and assumptions for his psycho ex. By defending this shit you are encouraging bad behavior and you should be ashamed of yourself!

[ShesRad80]

block her on all fronts, phone, social media etc and even change your number if you have to that will stop her from contacting you

[Beautyblossom2]

in his description, he already mentions she's moved on and gone (which he's glad about).. to me he just comes off like he can't accept that and feels insulted. So he's repeatedly emphasizing on his present girlfriend here

[ShesRad80]

@Beautyblossom2 i read that part, if he has done all the things like blocking there should be no issue in the end was my point, but most people these days seem to thrive on drama

[Beautyblossom2]

@shesrad80 I agree.. blocking her from everywhere should be the end

[ShesRad80]

@Beautyblossom2 💕💕💕👍

[Asker]

@Beautyblossom2 really it’s the other way around I’m glad she’s out of my life for the most part. I’m glad I’m not with her. I wished she could leave me alone. I leave her alone. Unless she reaches out to me

[Asker]

Yeah. It’s not that easy when they have fake accounts they use and text now numbers and sending you letters. She’s not a normal person. You’re normal people. You probably don’t do that stuff.

[OlderAndWiser]

Since you have not blocked her from contacting you, I would assume that you enjoy the attention from your ex. Are youtrying to make her jealous and get her back? From this short description, that is my impression.

[Asker]

I did block her. She has more accounts

[OlderAndWiser]

Then go to court and ask for an injunction against her.

[Asker]

Thanks

[ChadHelpsBros]

Bro, sounds like she still has some feelings for you but can't accept that you've moved on. It's totally normal for an ex to get jealous when they see you with someone new. But you gotta stay strong, bro, and stand up for yourself. If you're really moving on, it's best to cut contact with your ex, so she can't pull you back in. You got this, bro.

[Asker]

Not normal to act that way

[Asker]

I don’t care to talk to her at all. She just won’t go away

[Exterminatore]

She’s just a typical woman in that they think they are entitled to be a place holder in your life. They think they are entitled to come back at anytime, especially if they don’t find anyone better than you. If you won’t take them back they go nuts. Women cannot handle being rejected.


Never go back to her. Let her learn a lesson.

[Asker]

She’s not typical in any way

[Asker]

But imagine if I did this to her. She would have played the victim. Her ex everything was nothing but what a victim she is of him

[Exterminatore]

I hear you man. That’s a potential red flag if every single guy a woman has been with victimized her according to her. It either means she’s full of crap, because both parties have a roll to play in a relationship, or she has trouble picking decent men.

I’m sure she probably would play the victim if you did this to her.

I’m just saying a lot of women seem to think they are entitled to go back to man they left at anytime they want and seem to think the man will automatically take them back.

[DextroShade]

You should block her on everything and tell your new girlfriend to do the same because she will likely try to sabotage your new relationship. Unless you had a kid with her there is literally no reason she should still be in your life in any capacity. The idea that you should still be friends with your ex is stupid.

[Grovermint]

Sounds like you need to get a restraining order. She might escalate.

[Asker]

Considering it

[inhua]

reminds me of the Jonah Hill/Sarah Brady incident

[Reem12345reem]

the answer is clearand given in your question

"why is she jealous im dating a better woman?"

[ProbablyClueless]

She's toxic and lost control of you... She's a toxic person being toxic; it's what they do.

[jshm2]

She isn't. You've learned the hard way never to date crazy.

[Subflics]

She wants to be that better woman

[Asker]

She should start by finding someone who will put up with her shit. A cuck maybe… but then again. That’s not her type. But I don’t care if she ends up alone or with someone she doesn’t want. I don’t care about her at all. What happens to her good or bad is none of my concern at this point. I’ve done enough for her. Even after we broke up for a point

[jahaims]

Why are you still communicating with her?

[Asker]

I’m not

[jahaims]

Then how would you know how she is acting?

[Asker]

I ignore her but she won’t stop.

[Asker]

Check your notifications. I’ll post you a photo of my new girl

[Asker]

Not a full photo

[jahaims]

I will not be looking

[Asker]

Okay why not lol

[Asker]

My ex was kinda hot. Not that hot

[Sasha0426]

@Asker Wait, are you with this new girl because she’s hotter than your ex? And why are you sharing pictures of her to strangers? Do you even like her other than her looks?

[cuteangelprincess]

Men acting like women are their trophies to show off. Look, I got Gold here, admire it! It's nice she's beautiful but, is that all that matters to you?

[Beautyblossom2]

@Sasha0426 I agree cuz there's always going to be another hotter one than his present one too.. this is all kinda sad

[Asker]

@Beautyblossom2 I ignore her the best I can

[Sasha0426]

@Asker Ignore who?

[Asker]

@Sasha0426 lol. For the last time. I DO my absolute best. But she doesn’t get the hint