Me and my husband is separated and we have two kids together. He wants sex but I want to work on our marriage, move forward, and get a place together before we have sex. He always make excuses that we have problems... and the relationship is toxic...(he was the problem in the marriage but blames me for everything). So if I am the problem why he still want sex from me? He doesn't even want to move forward.
Here's the thing about the whole seductress demon trope: they're supposed to tempt men.
In religious arguments, or in the way your hubby probably likes to use this, he means you're so appealing to him you make him want to fuck you. And, in this weird context, somehow that's... bad.
But he uses words like demon to make you responsible for his want to fuck you.
Which is absolutely not your responsibility. You're just hot and sexy. He finds you very appealing.
But because he's unable to control himself - unable to "resist temptation" - he's trying to blame his lack of control on you.
That's a bullshit excuse.
He's a horny bastard who is trying to blame you for his own emotions and fuck ups.
He can't control himself, but it's too hard for him to face that fact. So he excuses it to himself by trying to blame you for "being too hot to resist".
I hope you can hear how really fucked up he's being in this. And how ridiculous it is.
You're not a jezebel, or a demon, or a harlot.
You're just a hot as fuck human and he's butthurt he cocked up his chance with you.
You are the cow he has bought for this sole purpose. Your sole job is to provide him sex and be a mother to his kids. (According to him) he doesn't care about any romanticism in this relationship like a typical arrange marriage. He is the head of the house and you as his wife, it's your duty to fulfill his sexual needs.
Because you’re a jezebel or a demon, and it sort of turns him off. You’re also familiar and available. But he hasn’t closed the door, so by all means use sex as a negotiation to work on the relationship. ‘We can go on a date for two hours, the first is mine, the second is yours.’
Cuz he doesn’t want to get sex from someone else. Did you say he could have sex with a stranger?
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what's that old saying why buy the cow
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