Why is my abusive/controlling ex-boyfriend refusing to return my belongings if he wants no further contact with me?

[Princessjade]

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know why don’t you ask him when you’re talking on the phone or in person maybe he wants that to be a way to get back with you or maybe he’s trying to teach you a lesson

[Princessjade]

I had him arrested for assaulting me, I don’t understand as to why he’s punishing me for protecting my own safety he has not apologised I’ve even bagan to feel guilty for reporting him.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You answered yourself. He's abusive and controlling.

[HitsyHonesty]

Because he is abusive and controlling. They operate annoying ways

[Charliefretz329]

Because that’s what abusive controlling people do.


I have experience with this…

[Princessjade]

Will he try to return back into my life? This is what’s concerning me.

[Charliefretz329]

Probably, losing you is losing control

[Still-alive]

Its a power game for him

[Princessjade]

When he apparently told police officers he doesn’t want no contact with me I find it bizarre, though he’s rang my phone on no caller ID twice since saying that an stayed silent when I answered he’s sending very mixed messages.

[strateguy632]

because he doesn't want to see you.

[Princessjade]

He was told to leave them outside still made excuses.

[jahaims]

Because he is abuse and controlling. Uh duh